Hi All, I'll keep this as briefly as possible as it is rather convoluted.
I have worked as a team manager for a multi national food manufacturer for six years, during 2021 I was under so much pressure from my then line manager that I ended up taking time off with depression and was prescribed anti depressants which I remained on for more than a year. in April last year I was involved in an incident, during a night shift when I was the senior person on site, in which an indirect report jumped off his FLT and became verbally aggressive, invading my persona space and pushing his finger into my face. He refused on six occasions to accompany me to my office even after I had contacted his union representative. He then left his truck parked up in impact mode and left site.
I made a full statement and sent it to my manager, the individual's manager and HR, he returned to work and immediately raised a grievance against me for bullying and harassment, he was not investigated as to why he left site let alone the incident in question. Following his return he began a campaign of passive aggression against me, I raised this with the appropriate people asking for support and for the incident to be investigated. Their answer was to move him to plant two but he was still allowed onto plant one and continued to be passively aggressive with me. During the grievance hearing (in which I was found to have acted appropriately) I requested that both parties were suspended given that the allegations raised against each amounted to gross misconduct if proven - this was refused.
I continued to ask for support and advised my employer that this situation was now having a detrimental effect on my mental health, I had previously spoken to occupational health regarding the matter and had subsequently raised a referral for assistance from them. Following my request for support and my detailed email describing how this whole situation was affecting me and that I didn't want to take time off work as I didn't want to go back onto anti depressants and I knew that would happen if I went off sick the business answered this by saying my OH referral was out of procedure and they would complete one, however they added "capability" to their referral. It was now June and there was still no investigation.
In July I requested a welfare meeting with HR and my line manager, this turned into an ambush where I was told I was moving shift and going into a different department, on which I was completely unfamiliar with. During the meeting I wasn't listened to, again I asked for support to prevent me from going off sick and returning to anti depressants, I also went into detail about how I'd had an adverse reaction to the medication when I first began taking it and how I had very serious concerns should I return to it, this was totally disregarded and I left the meeting feeling bullied and desolate. I continued to argue that the OH referral was for my well being and they couldn't take this away to replace it with their referral but the HRBP dug her heels in and insisted that this was going ahead, in response and to prevent this |I raised a grievance and went off sick, this resulted in a return to anti depressants.
I have recently had two meetings with the business aiming for a return to work, during the meetings the HR director has simply been managing my expectations saying "yes we left it too long to investigate we should've done it sooner but now it's too late, the HRBP thought she was helping you by referring you for capability but perhaps should've explained it to you in detail you would've understood." They are also insisting I still have to change shift and department, I have told them that I'll change shift but not department as it's just too much for me to cope with. I have another meeting on Thursday when I'll find out their decision.
My question is where do I stand with all of this? I know I should've taken them to an Industrial Tribunal for their bullying but I just wasn't well enough to think straight during the three month qualifying period and now I feel that I'm just being paid lip service to with no real prospect of support let alone closure.
I have worked as a team manager for a multi national food manufacturer for six years, during 2021 I was under so much pressure from my then line manager that I ended up taking time off with depression and was prescribed anti depressants which I remained on for more than a year. in April last year I was involved in an incident, during a night shift when I was the senior person on site, in which an indirect report jumped off his FLT and became verbally aggressive, invading my persona space and pushing his finger into my face. He refused on six occasions to accompany me to my office even after I had contacted his union representative. He then left his truck parked up in impact mode and left site.
I made a full statement and sent it to my manager, the individual's manager and HR, he returned to work and immediately raised a grievance against me for bullying and harassment, he was not investigated as to why he left site let alone the incident in question. Following his return he began a campaign of passive aggression against me, I raised this with the appropriate people asking for support and for the incident to be investigated. Their answer was to move him to plant two but he was still allowed onto plant one and continued to be passively aggressive with me. During the grievance hearing (in which I was found to have acted appropriately) I requested that both parties were suspended given that the allegations raised against each amounted to gross misconduct if proven - this was refused.
I continued to ask for support and advised my employer that this situation was now having a detrimental effect on my mental health, I had previously spoken to occupational health regarding the matter and had subsequently raised a referral for assistance from them. Following my request for support and my detailed email describing how this whole situation was affecting me and that I didn't want to take time off work as I didn't want to go back onto anti depressants and I knew that would happen if I went off sick the business answered this by saying my OH referral was out of procedure and they would complete one, however they added "capability" to their referral. It was now June and there was still no investigation.
In July I requested a welfare meeting with HR and my line manager, this turned into an ambush where I was told I was moving shift and going into a different department, on which I was completely unfamiliar with. During the meeting I wasn't listened to, again I asked for support to prevent me from going off sick and returning to anti depressants, I also went into detail about how I'd had an adverse reaction to the medication when I first began taking it and how I had very serious concerns should I return to it, this was totally disregarded and I left the meeting feeling bullied and desolate. I continued to argue that the OH referral was for my well being and they couldn't take this away to replace it with their referral but the HRBP dug her heels in and insisted that this was going ahead, in response and to prevent this |I raised a grievance and went off sick, this resulted in a return to anti depressants.
I have recently had two meetings with the business aiming for a return to work, during the meetings the HR director has simply been managing my expectations saying "yes we left it too long to investigate we should've done it sooner but now it's too late, the HRBP thought she was helping you by referring you for capability but perhaps should've explained it to you in detail you would've understood." They are also insisting I still have to change shift and department, I have told them that I'll change shift but not department as it's just too much for me to cope with. I have another meeting on Thursday when I'll find out their decision.
My question is where do I stand with all of this? I know I should've taken them to an Industrial Tribunal for their bullying but I just wasn't well enough to think straight during the three month qualifying period and now I feel that I'm just being paid lip service to with no real prospect of support let alone closure.
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