Hi,
I'm going through a very difficult time. I am nearing labour while simultaneously handing a sexual harassment/bullying claim and an unfair dismissal claim. Both relate to the same employer.
The moment I brought up the sexual harassment claim, chances of getting a job were withheld and I was made redundant. I filed the grievance for discrimination and unfair dismissal just before leaving in Dec 2021.
The grievance is still ongoing and they had initially used it as a tactic to delay me from filing an ET claim. I have union representation however they are useless and work hand in hand with the employer. I was glad to have interacted with ACAS who helped me tremendously and I managed to log a claim. Even CAB helped as well with the ET1.
I am ingoing counselling and therapy and recently went on to take anti depressant medication. I held off for so long because of the side effects it could have in my unborn baby. But I couldn't take anymore and it ended up taking the pills my midwife and gp where backing me to take for my mental health and wellbeing.
The union have provided negative assessments time after time on my claim and therefore their solicitor won't take on my claim because they believe I have less than 50% chance of winning.
I went privately to a barrister and solicitor and paid out of my last savings for a review. Both provided extremely good prospects of winning.
My claim was submitted to the ET in may. The ET3 was submitted early July however the respondent wanted an extension. This was granted and late July, the ET3 was submitted. Just early this week, I got confirmation of a preliminary hearing date for Jan and also an order for the respondent to provide a full response to my claim by end of Sept. The respondent has replied that they have responded on 25 July to the full claim.
Do you think a judge could have made a mistake and not seen the ET3 from late July by the respondent or was the judge not happy with the response?
Also the respondent has my grievance investigation still ongoing although my witnesses and myself provided our video recorded hearings/testimony in Jan/Feb this year.
The respondent is scared to provide an outcome because they know they failed me and also are backing the bullies.
I don't have home insurance to cover my legal fees but I do have an extremely strong case and 100% confident in winning my claim. Because some of the sexual jokes said to me were soul destroying to any female. And then the continued harassment because I told a senior who confronted the bullies.
It is a billion dollar company that I am up against and trying to take each day at a time. I want justice and the company to take responsibility for their actions.
Back to my questions:
Do you think a judge could have made a mistake and not seen the ET3 from late July by the respondent or was the judge not happy with their response?
The same bullies harassed two other employees as well last year. One had raised a grievance and for the second one, I raised it with a manager and asked that it be dealt with.
Can I bring up these two grievances in the ET to show there is a bullying culture?
My union has been on the fence and he didn't even bother to take up any of my concerns that I raised by email. I complained to the union and they provided another contact to use. I do have saved voicemails of this union manager asking if I wanted a job and he can get me one with the employer but indirectly asking me to leave the grievance behind. He refused to get me any legal help from the union with vague excuses. Even CAB were surprised that I went to them for help when I'm actively paying the union. Not sure how to take the union to task when I am fighting Goliath already.
Any advice will be appreciated.
I'm going through a very difficult time. I am nearing labour while simultaneously handing a sexual harassment/bullying claim and an unfair dismissal claim. Both relate to the same employer.
The moment I brought up the sexual harassment claim, chances of getting a job were withheld and I was made redundant. I filed the grievance for discrimination and unfair dismissal just before leaving in Dec 2021.
The grievance is still ongoing and they had initially used it as a tactic to delay me from filing an ET claim. I have union representation however they are useless and work hand in hand with the employer. I was glad to have interacted with ACAS who helped me tremendously and I managed to log a claim. Even CAB helped as well with the ET1.
I am ingoing counselling and therapy and recently went on to take anti depressant medication. I held off for so long because of the side effects it could have in my unborn baby. But I couldn't take anymore and it ended up taking the pills my midwife and gp where backing me to take for my mental health and wellbeing.
The union have provided negative assessments time after time on my claim and therefore their solicitor won't take on my claim because they believe I have less than 50% chance of winning.
I went privately to a barrister and solicitor and paid out of my last savings for a review. Both provided extremely good prospects of winning.
My claim was submitted to the ET in may. The ET3 was submitted early July however the respondent wanted an extension. This was granted and late July, the ET3 was submitted. Just early this week, I got confirmation of a preliminary hearing date for Jan and also an order for the respondent to provide a full response to my claim by end of Sept. The respondent has replied that they have responded on 25 July to the full claim.
Do you think a judge could have made a mistake and not seen the ET3 from late July by the respondent or was the judge not happy with the response?
Also the respondent has my grievance investigation still ongoing although my witnesses and myself provided our video recorded hearings/testimony in Jan/Feb this year.
The respondent is scared to provide an outcome because they know they failed me and also are backing the bullies.
I don't have home insurance to cover my legal fees but I do have an extremely strong case and 100% confident in winning my claim. Because some of the sexual jokes said to me were soul destroying to any female. And then the continued harassment because I told a senior who confronted the bullies.
It is a billion dollar company that I am up against and trying to take each day at a time. I want justice and the company to take responsibility for their actions.
Back to my questions:
Do you think a judge could have made a mistake and not seen the ET3 from late July by the respondent or was the judge not happy with their response?
The same bullies harassed two other employees as well last year. One had raised a grievance and for the second one, I raised it with a manager and asked that it be dealt with.
Can I bring up these two grievances in the ET to show there is a bullying culture?
My union has been on the fence and he didn't even bother to take up any of my concerns that I raised by email. I complained to the union and they provided another contact to use. I do have saved voicemails of this union manager asking if I wanted a job and he can get me one with the employer but indirectly asking me to leave the grievance behind. He refused to get me any legal help from the union with vague excuses. Even CAB were surprised that I went to them for help when I'm actively paying the union. Not sure how to take the union to task when I am fighting Goliath already.
Any advice will be appreciated.
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