This is my first time posting but I think I really need some help and advice. I will try and keep it to the details and keep it short as is a bit lon winded. Trigger warning for MH/Suicide
Long story short I suffer with both Borderline Personality Disorder and Dissacoative Disorder . The latter of the two can cause serious memory loss , confusion and general not knowing who you are at times.
Recently , although unknowingly at the time, it has caused to me to lose a lot of items at work. Some money, some keys, documents etc . You name it I've probably lost it.
I don't deny that and I would have liked to participate in the investigation/disciplinary. That is where I have come into problems, my condition has seriously worsened and it led to a break down in my mental Health during the process where I attempted my own life. They agreed to postpone once, re arranged it for a pre booked holiday day where my kids were off school for inset, then re arranged for the day after once I let them know it has been booked on a holiday day. However I was still extremely unwell on the proposed date and hadn't returned home from hospital. They decided this wasn't reason enough to postpone and have carried on without me.
They offered some reasonable adjustments but none that would have actually made it possible for me to participate. I asked if it could be held elsewhere due to the likelihood of returning to the store bringing on a dissacoative episode ( can be brought on by stress) which was point blank ignored. I also asked regarding written submissions, and asked if I would be able to have someone help me understand. Again this was ignored. We even asked if they would like to refer me to Occupational Heath or if they would like anything from my GP. Again ignored.
It is also likely that my Mental Health condition has potentially countributed to me loosing everything in the first place.
They seem to just ignore completely my two conditions even exist and are not interested in the reasonable adjustments I suggest. I have also made it clear to them I am unable to understand teh process and I need help and there has been no further explanation of the process explained.
Any help or advice really appreciated.
Long story short I suffer with both Borderline Personality Disorder and Dissacoative Disorder . The latter of the two can cause serious memory loss , confusion and general not knowing who you are at times.
Recently , although unknowingly at the time, it has caused to me to lose a lot of items at work. Some money, some keys, documents etc . You name it I've probably lost it.
I don't deny that and I would have liked to participate in the investigation/disciplinary. That is where I have come into problems, my condition has seriously worsened and it led to a break down in my mental Health during the process where I attempted my own life. They agreed to postpone once, re arranged it for a pre booked holiday day where my kids were off school for inset, then re arranged for the day after once I let them know it has been booked on a holiday day. However I was still extremely unwell on the proposed date and hadn't returned home from hospital. They decided this wasn't reason enough to postpone and have carried on without me.
They offered some reasonable adjustments but none that would have actually made it possible for me to participate. I asked if it could be held elsewhere due to the likelihood of returning to the store bringing on a dissacoative episode ( can be brought on by stress) which was point blank ignored. I also asked regarding written submissions, and asked if I would be able to have someone help me understand. Again this was ignored. We even asked if they would like to refer me to Occupational Heath or if they would like anything from my GP. Again ignored.
It is also likely that my Mental Health condition has potentially countributed to me loosing everything in the first place.
They seem to just ignore completely my two conditions even exist and are not interested in the reasonable adjustments I suggest. I have also made it clear to them I am unable to understand teh process and I need help and there has been no further explanation of the process explained.
Any help or advice really appreciated.
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