My daughter left the company she worked for in March 2021 and has recently settled at another place in a new position. Whilst she was at her previous place of work, she became friends with one of the managers (a married man) and would often go to lunch with him and others (as friends). Over time, this manager would become a bit creepy and stand extremely close to my daughter when talking and often touch her on her arm. On one occasion, he came behind her and started to massage her, wrapping his arms around her, kissing her cheek. This was witnessed by a colleague who noted how uncomfortable she looked. During evenings and weekends, he would attempt to phone her and text and even sent semi-nude photos. She wanted a quiet and easy life, so she never said anything, although it did make her extremely uncomfortable. Her colleagues commented on the inappropriate behaviour displayed by said individual, but she didn't know what to do as she feared she would lose her job if she reported it. Since leaving the company, the same individual has sent her messages which are indirectly sexual explicit, and he has also sent my son in law naked photos of himself. My son in law is still employed by the same company and isn't sure if his job is safe by reporting such actions. However, he fully supports my daughter and agrees to report this sick individual is the right thing to do.
Whilst my daughter worked at the company, she was seconded to the role for three years, where she later found out she was being paid £10,000 a year less than her male comparators within the team. She was doing the same role as them and in some instanced more. When she questions this, she is shot down and made to feel like a fool. She has everything documented, including a rough timeline of events. She even has witnesses statements corroborating she was doing the full role.
I didn't realise any of this was going on, as I would have told her to report it immediately. However, I do understand the difficulty of the situation. All of the above reasons are why she left the company. As a result, she phoned ACAS for advice, who mentioned early conciliation. And employment tribunals. She has opted to go down the early conciliation route, using ACAS as guidance, hoping to achieve compensation and closure on the above wrongdoings. Unfortunately, ACAS has replied to say the company denies all allegations and wrongdoing.
I'm after any advice or comments on how to deal with this. ACAS early conciliation has proved useless, and we are wondering if a well-written letter and copies of witness statements and evidence may force them to investigate the claims further. I want to support her the best I can, and I think she should continue down the tribunal/legal route, as the company and individuals deserve everything they get. But, at the same time, I don't want this affecting my daughter's mental health anymore, something which it has done for some time (it went on for three years).
Thanks in advance.
Whilst my daughter worked at the company, she was seconded to the role for three years, where she later found out she was being paid £10,000 a year less than her male comparators within the team. She was doing the same role as them and in some instanced more. When she questions this, she is shot down and made to feel like a fool. She has everything documented, including a rough timeline of events. She even has witnesses statements corroborating she was doing the full role.
I didn't realise any of this was going on, as I would have told her to report it immediately. However, I do understand the difficulty of the situation. All of the above reasons are why she left the company. As a result, she phoned ACAS for advice, who mentioned early conciliation. And employment tribunals. She has opted to go down the early conciliation route, using ACAS as guidance, hoping to achieve compensation and closure on the above wrongdoings. Unfortunately, ACAS has replied to say the company denies all allegations and wrongdoing.
I'm after any advice or comments on how to deal with this. ACAS early conciliation has proved useless, and we are wondering if a well-written letter and copies of witness statements and evidence may force them to investigate the claims further. I want to support her the best I can, and I think she should continue down the tribunal/legal route, as the company and individuals deserve everything they get. But, at the same time, I don't want this affecting my daughter's mental health anymore, something which it has done for some time (it went on for three years).
Thanks in advance.
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