Hi all, I have used the forums before but lost my login somehow... anyhoo.
I have a fairly serious employment issue and I'm hoping someone can help me with a suggestion? I have felt that my employer wouldn't be disappointed if I was gone from the business for a couple of reasons. Late last year, I was frustrated with some pretty heavy misconduct happening and I said I wasn't happy and would look for a job. If you're wondering why I didn't complain about the misconduct; it is the conduct of the MD's younger brother I had an issue with. Recently, the MD had a go at a colleague, shouting and being generally abusive. Allegedly, once the MD was gone, I said "if he spoke to me that way I'd be gone". This was what someone said to him behind closed doors. I received a meeting request to attend an investigation meeting, it did not state what I was being investigated for. In that meeting, he voiced his concern at what was allegedly said, I said I couldn't remember (I had no time to prepare). It was left that it was my word against someone else's and he couldn't prove any wrong doing. Then, just before lunch today, I receive another invite for a disciplinary meeting. Stating it is relating to him having investigated the original issue, but also it is in relation to a further incidence since the original meeting. Again, did not state what the issue was. I have Friday off, so now I'm worried I have this meeting at 4pm to basically sack me. I don't really know how to play tomorrow. He gave me basically one days notice and no ability to prepare.
1. Can I request the disciplinary should not go ahead tomorrow, that I should know the issue and reschedule for nest week? I don't know how much time he should give me to prepare?
2. If I am given a disciplinary it would look bad for future employment, if he refuses to reschedule, should I object and not attend?
3. Could I resign and forego notice, thus avoiding the disciplinary hearing? and the affect on my reference?
4. The last option, if all failed would be to negotiate to resign. It feels a bit wrong to consider, based on not even knowing the reason for the disciplinary.
Hopefully I haven't bored you and written too much, hopefully someone can suggest some help
I have a fairly serious employment issue and I'm hoping someone can help me with a suggestion? I have felt that my employer wouldn't be disappointed if I was gone from the business for a couple of reasons. Late last year, I was frustrated with some pretty heavy misconduct happening and I said I wasn't happy and would look for a job. If you're wondering why I didn't complain about the misconduct; it is the conduct of the MD's younger brother I had an issue with. Recently, the MD had a go at a colleague, shouting and being generally abusive. Allegedly, once the MD was gone, I said "if he spoke to me that way I'd be gone". This was what someone said to him behind closed doors. I received a meeting request to attend an investigation meeting, it did not state what I was being investigated for. In that meeting, he voiced his concern at what was allegedly said, I said I couldn't remember (I had no time to prepare). It was left that it was my word against someone else's and he couldn't prove any wrong doing. Then, just before lunch today, I receive another invite for a disciplinary meeting. Stating it is relating to him having investigated the original issue, but also it is in relation to a further incidence since the original meeting. Again, did not state what the issue was. I have Friday off, so now I'm worried I have this meeting at 4pm to basically sack me. I don't really know how to play tomorrow. He gave me basically one days notice and no ability to prepare.
1. Can I request the disciplinary should not go ahead tomorrow, that I should know the issue and reschedule for nest week? I don't know how much time he should give me to prepare?
2. If I am given a disciplinary it would look bad for future employment, if he refuses to reschedule, should I object and not attend?
3. Could I resign and forego notice, thus avoiding the disciplinary hearing? and the affect on my reference?
4. The last option, if all failed would be to negotiate to resign. It feels a bit wrong to consider, based on not even knowing the reason for the disciplinary.
Hopefully I haven't bored you and written too much, hopefully someone can suggest some help
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