My wife and I are in our 70’s and worried beyond words about our daughter (my step) who is 45.
The stress of this situation over the last year or so has seriously affected our health, as well as that of my daughter so please can someone help us.
Last May our daughter attempted suicide, she had been in a relationship for 10 years. After this attempt she opened up to us and her GP about the abuse and violence from her boyfriend
She alone owns the house but she was too scared to move him out. He of his own choice moved out to a rented room yards from her house with full view of it. In October 19 he walked into her house saying he wanted to talk. He attacked her again, she called the Police who removed, arrested and charged him with assault by battering. My daughter never pressed charges or made a statement to the Police. The Police forensic team took photographs of the marks on her neck and of her lounge to record the “mayhem” left behind from the attack. The case was due in court last month but the CPS dropped charges as his solicitor claimed that my daughter attacked him and he was the victim not her. I have seen the letter sent to the CPS by his solicitor and the contents are disgusting.
While waiting his court appearance he approached a joint friend showing him what he claimed were explicit photographs of my daughter. The friend told my daughter and we bought it to the attention of the officer handling the original case. The police spoke to the friend, took a statement and arrested her ex again (revenge porn issue). Due to lack of evidence no charges were made. Again my daughter made no statement (as it was hearsay) or expressed a wish to press charges.
My daughter has just got a letter from her ex’s solicitor claiming “Attempted Malicious Prosecution” for each arrest and are claiming from my daughter, legal cost to date of £3,000 and damages of £4,000. In his letter to the CPS his solicitor says when referring to the above “will result in the likely bankruptcy or sale of Ms XXXXXX home”
I am attempting to answer the solicitor on behalf of my daughter but it’s a nightmare trying to cover so much history and information, 6 pages so far!
I cannot see how there is any claim against my daughter, she asked the Police to provide protection and remove him from her house (trespass), it was the Police’s choice to prosecute and not on her evidence.
The second arrest was made because of someone else’s allegation to the Police and based on their statement that again was not of her making.
My daughter is unable to work at the moment due to anxiety and depression, damaged nerves in her neck (confirmed by MRI scan) suspected cause her ex’s attempts to strangle her and minor spinal degeneration. She is a Farmers daughter and a good hard worker, and is not work shy.
Is she entitled to legal aid ? the loss of house or bankruptcy would finish her and I don’t think she is liable anyway.
More importantly can she be held liable for the claim as she never pressed any charges in either case.
Any advice or opinions would be appreciated.
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The stress of this situation over the last year or so has seriously affected our health, as well as that of my daughter so please can someone help us.
Last May our daughter attempted suicide, she had been in a relationship for 10 years. After this attempt she opened up to us and her GP about the abuse and violence from her boyfriend
She alone owns the house but she was too scared to move him out. He of his own choice moved out to a rented room yards from her house with full view of it. In October 19 he walked into her house saying he wanted to talk. He attacked her again, she called the Police who removed, arrested and charged him with assault by battering. My daughter never pressed charges or made a statement to the Police. The Police forensic team took photographs of the marks on her neck and of her lounge to record the “mayhem” left behind from the attack. The case was due in court last month but the CPS dropped charges as his solicitor claimed that my daughter attacked him and he was the victim not her. I have seen the letter sent to the CPS by his solicitor and the contents are disgusting.
While waiting his court appearance he approached a joint friend showing him what he claimed were explicit photographs of my daughter. The friend told my daughter and we bought it to the attention of the officer handling the original case. The police spoke to the friend, took a statement and arrested her ex again (revenge porn issue). Due to lack of evidence no charges were made. Again my daughter made no statement (as it was hearsay) or expressed a wish to press charges.
My daughter has just got a letter from her ex’s solicitor claiming “Attempted Malicious Prosecution” for each arrest and are claiming from my daughter, legal cost to date of £3,000 and damages of £4,000. In his letter to the CPS his solicitor says when referring to the above “will result in the likely bankruptcy or sale of Ms XXXXXX home”
I am attempting to answer the solicitor on behalf of my daughter but it’s a nightmare trying to cover so much history and information, 6 pages so far!
I cannot see how there is any claim against my daughter, she asked the Police to provide protection and remove him from her house (trespass), it was the Police’s choice to prosecute and not on her evidence.
The second arrest was made because of someone else’s allegation to the Police and based on their statement that again was not of her making.
My daughter is unable to work at the moment due to anxiety and depression, damaged nerves in her neck (confirmed by MRI scan) suspected cause her ex’s attempts to strangle her and minor spinal degeneration. She is a Farmers daughter and a good hard worker, and is not work shy.
Is she entitled to legal aid ? the loss of house or bankruptcy would finish her and I don’t think she is liable anyway.
More importantly can she be held liable for the claim as she never pressed any charges in either case.
Any advice or opinions would be appreciated.
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