Posted on behalf of new user - [MENTION=51773]MaryGMX[/MENTION]
Hi
i may seem pretty naive and silly but please can you advise me asp
to make a long story short my now ex husband had a credit card with mbna which he could not pay back as his business went under.
plus other things
2004 my x husband who was then my husband had a declaration of trust made up for me as he wanted to remortgage and all but double or mortgage which I did not want as it would be beyond my means to pay if on my own.
the reason being he had had cancer previously and if it came back he had very little life insurance and I was only working part time with 3 children dependant on us.
so with this I thought is any thing went wrong ie he got cancer
his is business went under a few years later and as he worked from home hide all his problems as by then.i was back at work full time so post to us both he hide.
one day I came home to find he had tried to kill himself
i then found out the trouble he was in
our house was about to be Repossesed and we owed thousands, Utilities and many other things.
I got a second job and took in lodgers to try and clear the monies owed on what was joint debt.
i could not take on any more as that was hard enough.
my ex husband ended up in prison with things he did to try and help sort him self out.
but then mbna got a charging g order on our mortgage before we were divorced even though I was in process,, and despite the trust document which they said wasn't valid.
the court fist time round was postponed due to restons saying she had left our paper work on the train, though seems later said she had it I her bag!!
second time my ex husband was in prison so could not go so I went with trust document thinking every thing would be ok as every one else (other creditors) had acknowledged it.
also at time was not in a good place as recently lost my dad of cancer who I help nurse during his illness. As well as having to travel many miles to do this.
I did write to the judge after to ask what I needed to do and sent it via court but looking back never got a response.
as I worked two jobs still had a daughter at home and a house to up keep and now a bad hip I some how forgot to chase up.
After my divorce was finalised the family court said the house was mine and the crown courts also said the same.
I am selling the house to get some where smaller that will be less expensive and manageable and so I do not need lodgers and 2 jobs.
as I had hip surgery early this year and the found I had some problems with it that are now making my mobility limited, so my second job has had to stop making things very tight for me.
I have now got another letter from the courts for a notice of hearing, for tomorrow
they want to force a sale and have their money.
i could not get to see a solicitor till Saturday though had given him my paper work a few days previously, as every time I rang them he was busy and never rang back and as I worked full time and we have no mobile signal in most of the hospital could only try and get hold of him in my dinner break.
seeing him Saturday have now made me very worried as he say I will have to probably pay them but he will ask the court if we can carry on with the hopefully sale of the house that is at present happening from me selling it.
i am at my wits end can you help or advise please.
xxx
i may seem pretty naive and silly but please can you advise me asp
to make a long story short my now ex husband had a credit card with mbna which he could not pay back as his business went under.
plus other things
2004 my x husband who was then my husband had a declaration of trust made up for me as he wanted to remortgage and all but double or mortgage which I did not want as it would be beyond my means to pay if on my own.
the reason being he had had cancer previously and if it came back he had very little life insurance and I was only working part time with 3 children dependant on us.
so with this I thought is any thing went wrong ie he got cancer
his is business went under a few years later and as he worked from home hide all his problems as by then.i was back at work full time so post to us both he hide.
one day I came home to find he had tried to kill himself
i then found out the trouble he was in
our house was about to be Repossesed and we owed thousands, Utilities and many other things.
I got a second job and took in lodgers to try and clear the monies owed on what was joint debt.
i could not take on any more as that was hard enough.
my ex husband ended up in prison with things he did to try and help sort him self out.
but then mbna got a charging g order on our mortgage before we were divorced even though I was in process,, and despite the trust document which they said wasn't valid.
the court fist time round was postponed due to restons saying she had left our paper work on the train, though seems later said she had it I her bag!!
second time my ex husband was in prison so could not go so I went with trust document thinking every thing would be ok as every one else (other creditors) had acknowledged it.
also at time was not in a good place as recently lost my dad of cancer who I help nurse during his illness. As well as having to travel many miles to do this.
I did write to the judge after to ask what I needed to do and sent it via court but looking back never got a response.
as I worked two jobs still had a daughter at home and a house to up keep and now a bad hip I some how forgot to chase up.
After my divorce was finalised the family court said the house was mine and the crown courts also said the same.
I am selling the house to get some where smaller that will be less expensive and manageable and so I do not need lodgers and 2 jobs.
as I had hip surgery early this year and the found I had some problems with it that are now making my mobility limited, so my second job has had to stop making things very tight for me.
I have now got another letter from the courts for a notice of hearing, for tomorrow
they want to force a sale and have their money.
i could not get to see a solicitor till Saturday though had given him my paper work a few days previously, as every time I rang them he was busy and never rang back and as I worked full time and we have no mobile signal in most of the hospital could only try and get hold of him in my dinner break.
seeing him Saturday have now made me very worried as he say I will have to probably pay them but he will ask the court if we can carry on with the hopefully sale of the house that is at present happening from me selling it.
i am at my wits end can you help or advise please.
xxx
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