Hi, hoping to get some advice please.
I got divorced a few years ago and the ex inlaws turned nasty against me, leading me to block thier numbers from calling me, no contact in over a year
While married they gave my ex some money which she said they told her they were giving her but if she had it now she wouldnt have as much when they were gone, and that they would do the same for her brother in their will
During the divorce things got messy, poloce were involved at times and i was advised to record any bad arguements, during one conversation my ex said they wanted the money back, i said it was never a loan and she repeated 'well they gave me the money now they want it back' i asked when it was ever discussed as a loan and she couldnt answer, i have the recording of this
During the divorce settlememt the ex had it written into the settlement, my solicitor said it was clearly a gift and if there was no evidnce of a loan it should be removed form the comsent order, which was not contested and was removed from the documents
I recieved a MCOL claim a few months ago, from the ex inlaws, saying they lent us money to buy our house
I sent a defence stating i had never had a discussuion with them to borrow money, I have never taken a loan from them and that the house was purched using equity fomr sale of previous property plus additional mortgage borrowing (for which i have solicitors completion statement), also that i have had no contact with them in over a year
The next letter was the directions questionnaire, on this it advised that mediation was encouraged, so i ticked the box
I now have a mediation appoinment but is says I have to agree negotiate and compromise? How can I negotiate when I never borrwed any money? It also says I have to agree that i have enough information and require no more evidence, there has been no evidence sent to me (as there is none)
Any help or advise on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated
Thank you
I got divorced a few years ago and the ex inlaws turned nasty against me, leading me to block thier numbers from calling me, no contact in over a year
While married they gave my ex some money which she said they told her they were giving her but if she had it now she wouldnt have as much when they were gone, and that they would do the same for her brother in their will
During the divorce things got messy, poloce were involved at times and i was advised to record any bad arguements, during one conversation my ex said they wanted the money back, i said it was never a loan and she repeated 'well they gave me the money now they want it back' i asked when it was ever discussed as a loan and she couldnt answer, i have the recording of this
During the divorce settlememt the ex had it written into the settlement, my solicitor said it was clearly a gift and if there was no evidnce of a loan it should be removed form the comsent order, which was not contested and was removed from the documents
I recieved a MCOL claim a few months ago, from the ex inlaws, saying they lent us money to buy our house
I sent a defence stating i had never had a discussuion with them to borrow money, I have never taken a loan from them and that the house was purched using equity fomr sale of previous property plus additional mortgage borrowing (for which i have solicitors completion statement), also that i have had no contact with them in over a year
The next letter was the directions questionnaire, on this it advised that mediation was encouraged, so i ticked the box
I now have a mediation appoinment but is says I have to agree negotiate and compromise? How can I negotiate when I never borrwed any money? It also says I have to agree that i have enough information and require no more evidence, there has been no evidence sent to me (as there is none)
Any help or advise on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated
Thank you
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