Hi all!
i am seeking a bit of advice on behalf of my friend.
a few months ago they were caught shoplifting from TK MAXX and was stopped after leaving the store by store security and asked to go back to the office. When they got in to the office my friend was asked why they had taken the items and everything was recovered in a fit for re sale condition (all tags still on items and un damaged)
my friend explained that it was completely out of character, expressed how deeply sorry they were and had no idea why they had done what they had done. After searching my friends bag they found some tablets and asked what they were for and my friend told them they were antidepressants and they are currently under going regular counselling (which is true)
The Police weren't called but they took a copy of my friends passport, name, address and place of work and he was aloud to leave.
Obviously my friend was distraught and was worrying that they were going to contact his work over the weekend, so, in result he wrote his notice and was ready to hand it in Monday morning first thing. Unfortunately, TK MAXX had called his work and he was called in to the office after he had handed in his notice and they said he can either A) leave with immediate effect or B) have a full investigation carried out regarding the incident. He decided to leave with immediate effect not knowing what could come of the investigation (he'd rather leave on a voluntary basis than be investigated and then ASKED to leave)
A week later he received a letter from RLP saying that,in short, pay up £157 for compensation to there client or the matter would be escalated to court.
he told me about this and I had a little look on the Internet and after reading pages and pages of posts and advice from people who had also been contacted by the RLP gave him the advice to ignore the letter as it was just a speculative invoice with no legal basis and that they are just using scare tactics to suck money out of you.
he took my advice and a second letter came through the post (as expected) with pretty much the same as what the first letter had stated but worded differently with a few scary words added in.
Again I reassured him and sent him some links to forums for him to read to help with his anxiety and he ignored this letter.
so next up, you guessed it, a third letter has been sent through today.
i worry that I am falling in to there fear trap and my friend is too and he is uncomfortable with ignoring these letters anymore due to what they are saying.
i know there has been a lot on RLP but every case I have read has been under different circumstances I.e they're under 18 or currently jobless
some advice would be much appreciated
i still believe that there is nothing they can do and to just ignore it but I wouldn't forgive myself if I gave advice to him that was bad and that got him in to avoidable trouble!
Thank you!
Letter one. http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/...ps5c500a7a.jpg.
Letter two. http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/...ps33201436.jpg
Letter three. http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/...ps09dcb7f2.jpg
i am seeking a bit of advice on behalf of my friend.
a few months ago they were caught shoplifting from TK MAXX and was stopped after leaving the store by store security and asked to go back to the office. When they got in to the office my friend was asked why they had taken the items and everything was recovered in a fit for re sale condition (all tags still on items and un damaged)
my friend explained that it was completely out of character, expressed how deeply sorry they were and had no idea why they had done what they had done. After searching my friends bag they found some tablets and asked what they were for and my friend told them they were antidepressants and they are currently under going regular counselling (which is true)
The Police weren't called but they took a copy of my friends passport, name, address and place of work and he was aloud to leave.
Obviously my friend was distraught and was worrying that they were going to contact his work over the weekend, so, in result he wrote his notice and was ready to hand it in Monday morning first thing. Unfortunately, TK MAXX had called his work and he was called in to the office after he had handed in his notice and they said he can either A) leave with immediate effect or B) have a full investigation carried out regarding the incident. He decided to leave with immediate effect not knowing what could come of the investigation (he'd rather leave on a voluntary basis than be investigated and then ASKED to leave)
A week later he received a letter from RLP saying that,in short, pay up £157 for compensation to there client or the matter would be escalated to court.
he told me about this and I had a little look on the Internet and after reading pages and pages of posts and advice from people who had also been contacted by the RLP gave him the advice to ignore the letter as it was just a speculative invoice with no legal basis and that they are just using scare tactics to suck money out of you.
he took my advice and a second letter came through the post (as expected) with pretty much the same as what the first letter had stated but worded differently with a few scary words added in.
Again I reassured him and sent him some links to forums for him to read to help with his anxiety and he ignored this letter.
so next up, you guessed it, a third letter has been sent through today.
i worry that I am falling in to there fear trap and my friend is too and he is uncomfortable with ignoring these letters anymore due to what they are saying.
i know there has been a lot on RLP but every case I have read has been under different circumstances I.e they're under 18 or currently jobless
some advice would be much appreciated
i still believe that there is nothing they can do and to just ignore it but I wouldn't forgive myself if I gave advice to him that was bad and that got him in to avoidable trouble!
Thank you!
Letter one. http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/...ps5c500a7a.jpg.
Letter two. http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/...ps33201436.jpg
Letter three. http://i1272.photobucket.com/albums/...ps09dcb7f2.jpg
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