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Hope you are all coping all right and trying to relax at least a little on this nice Saturday evening.
I found myself on this forum following the proverbial Tornado that came into my life beginning of 2009, and although I now can distance myself a little to what exactly was happening I am in great need of advice to be able to dig myself out of this mess. Part of it was because that I was deluding myself about the future and my finances, another part was because of unexpected circumstances and life events that I was completely unprepared for, and the last part was because of certain (evil) people in my life who did not wish me well but posed as real friends and my not being able to comprehend that for a very long time. These people were my family and stepfamily.
So I was about to write a thriller but perhaps I shall stop right there because I am in fact unemployed now and should really concentrate on sorting everything out, I wrote this prologue just to let you know that it is simply an impossible task if you are feeling betrayed by the very people you trust and love. Coming to terms with the Truth has a very positive impact on you, you can put things behind and decide on starting a new life, wanting to start a new life - this is crucial if one wants to put ones finances and budget sheets in order.
So. Here is the thing I would like to sort out first and it would be fantastic if it was possible to do.
At the very bottom of my worries lies the fact that I have a CCJ on my record ever since January 2010. I never imagined that this could happen to me but it is only now that I realized how serious it is, that is 3 years after it happened. This is not a joke. When things got out of hand I foun for the first time in my life that I just could not cope. I think I am a reasonable person, I have higher education, Master degree and 10 years in continuos employment and always been a golden girl so to speak... And yet this "golden girl" thing was always the problem with my stepfamily the problem that I always ignored and pretended that it never hurt me and kept up the appearances. This was wrong. One should never ignore the warning signs, it is only when the big financial crush happens that you really know how big is your enemy.
It started with my business going a bit downhill but it hardly was the end of the world. It always was up and down a bit, but I was making the ends meet, being a mortgage slave it is always a balancing act but you need a backbone, a gut and a lot of self-confidence. I had loads but it always was a team work rather than just me being self sufficient, a symbiotic kind of relationship between me and my father who lived in California and... who suddenly... got a new wife... to be continued...:beagle:
Hope you are all coping all right and trying to relax at least a little on this nice Saturday evening.
I found myself on this forum following the proverbial Tornado that came into my life beginning of 2009, and although I now can distance myself a little to what exactly was happening I am in great need of advice to be able to dig myself out of this mess. Part of it was because that I was deluding myself about the future and my finances, another part was because of unexpected circumstances and life events that I was completely unprepared for, and the last part was because of certain (evil) people in my life who did not wish me well but posed as real friends and my not being able to comprehend that for a very long time. These people were my family and stepfamily.
So I was about to write a thriller but perhaps I shall stop right there because I am in fact unemployed now and should really concentrate on sorting everything out, I wrote this prologue just to let you know that it is simply an impossible task if you are feeling betrayed by the very people you trust and love. Coming to terms with the Truth has a very positive impact on you, you can put things behind and decide on starting a new life, wanting to start a new life - this is crucial if one wants to put ones finances and budget sheets in order.
So. Here is the thing I would like to sort out first and it would be fantastic if it was possible to do.
At the very bottom of my worries lies the fact that I have a CCJ on my record ever since January 2010. I never imagined that this could happen to me but it is only now that I realized how serious it is, that is 3 years after it happened. This is not a joke. When things got out of hand I foun for the first time in my life that I just could not cope. I think I am a reasonable person, I have higher education, Master degree and 10 years in continuos employment and always been a golden girl so to speak... And yet this "golden girl" thing was always the problem with my stepfamily the problem that I always ignored and pretended that it never hurt me and kept up the appearances. This was wrong. One should never ignore the warning signs, it is only when the big financial crush happens that you really know how big is your enemy.
It started with my business going a bit downhill but it hardly was the end of the world. It always was up and down a bit, but I was making the ends meet, being a mortgage slave it is always a balancing act but you need a backbone, a gut and a lot of self-confidence. I had loads but it always was a team work rather than just me being self sufficient, a symbiotic kind of relationship between me and my father who lived in California and... who suddenly... got a new wife... to be continued...:beagle:
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