Hi. I am just after advice wether what has happened is allowed. Long story short, about 12 years ago my dog was dying of heart failure and after having scans, vet appointments plus all the medication he was on, I was paying about £1000 a month. I have never got on with my mum but she said I should move back home and pay her £200 a month in rent instead of the £700 on my house to save money towards vet costs, I did, upon moving home I paid the £200 gave up my house and the next month my mum upped the rent to £700 a month. I wasn’t handling my dog dying very well so just paid her, she knew I had nowhere else to live and started having me clean the house, walk her dog etc, if I refused she told me I had to leave her house and she would ring the police, on one occasion she rang them four times in a day, first was to ask to police to ask me to leave the house but I left before they arrived, she then rang me telling me to go home which I did, upon arriving she asked me again was I going to walk her dog I refused so she rang the police a second time that day so I left again, then she rang me asking me to go and collect my dog from hers which I did, upon getting to the house it was locked, I phoned her and she said she was in the bath and I’d have to wait but she had rang the police a third time that day saying I was at her door, they arrived me at the door and I shown them her call on my phone they accepted and left but told me not to return that day, then my mum rang me saying she wasn’t giving my dog his heart medication, it was pure mental abuse I just didn’t know what to do so I went back to give him his heart medication and she rang the police a fourth time that day, this happened over the months I was there and the calls built up. My dog then died and that night she wanted me to throw away his bed bowls and toys I refused saying he had died that day I wasn’t ready, she rang the police saying I wasn’t letting her tidy up her house so I left before they got there, whilst I was gone she took all my dogs stuff to the waste disposal centre. I didn’t handle his death well she was having me give her money all the time, having me get her finance, catalogs, mobile phones, credit card, I was repaying all the repayments, I was bad in debt, she asked me to lend her money one day I refused and to save an argument I left the property, she kept ringing and I didn’t answer she text me she had contacted the police as she feared for my safety, the police rang me and said I had to see them to show I was mentally well, I explained my mum was after money and I had ignored the phone to her and they were happy after visiting me at my friends. Fast forward a few years till last year and I met this amazing girl, I was happy for the first time in a long time, it was difficult at first, she was hot and cold for months finally opened up about her ex being abusive to her for years and I was patient with her. She stayed at mine Friday till yesterday (Sunday and we had a lovely weekend, she joked when was I going to propose to her asked wether I’d ever want a child in future (she already has kids I don’t) I told her I would. She went home yesterday but unbeknown to me she had applied to the police about my history and they called her in. The police woman told her I had a number of calls on me made by my mum, the police woman said I had never done anything serious but that it was on my record regarding my mental health, they didn’t say it was just when my mum wanted money and I wouldn’t answer the phone so my mum made up lies to get me to contact her, and said police had been called because my mum had moved something of mine, didn’t say his mum had disposed of his dogs stuff the day his dog died. And the police woman said imagine if you moved in together and moved his stuff and he argued with you over it, and the police woman said to her your a smart girl use your brain. She left the police station rang me and broke up the relationship. Is what the police did legal
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