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Throwing out my Dad
I live with my parents and my wife.
My old man retired 14 years ago and since then, he has always been jealous of me and my mum as we continued to work and earn. His jealousy kept increasing and he started thinking of ways to harm us. e.g. He phoned/wrote emails to our friends , family friends, HMRC, etc. and made up stories to put us in their bad books. Since then, we have not had any guests come to our house. Shortly after, he was always in a bad mood and would yell / cause verbal fights in the house all the time. At one point, my younger sister ( who lived with us back then ) called the Old Bill and they came round and took him away for a night. He was given a warning and set free.
My mum then forcibly took him to our GP and the Doctor diagnosed that he was suffering depression. He was given medication and he started taking it. Eventually, he himself decided not to take these anymore without our knowledge. He was still miffed about the GP and the Old Bill incident and he was soon back to his old ways. This time, he changed his ways. He would act nice or stay quiet around us but would then do his evil deeds in the background.
I got married three years ago and my wife moved in with me. My wife is housewife and stays at home with my Dad. He has been poisoning my wife's mind with fabricated stories and has now caused heightened tensions between me & my wife. It has become so bad that I am determined to divorce her in the near future.
At this point, I have just had it and would like to throw away all the bad apples from our house and start with a clean slate. I need to get rid of the Kingpin i.e. my Dad. I am infuriated that both me and my mum ( sister now lives on her own elsewhere ) work hard to put food on the table and pay the bills while my Dad stays home in comfort and causes problems for us.
My mum owns the house and both she and I pay the mortgage. My Dad had paid £10k deposit when we first bought the house.
Legally, what is the best way to throw him out of the house?
My old man retired 14 years ago and since then, he has always been jealous of me and my mum as we continued to work and earn. His jealousy kept increasing and he started thinking of ways to harm us. e.g. He phoned/wrote emails to our friends , family friends, HMRC, etc. and made up stories to put us in their bad books. Since then, we have not had any guests come to our house. Shortly after, he was always in a bad mood and would yell / cause verbal fights in the house all the time. At one point, my younger sister ( who lived with us back then ) called the Old Bill and they came round and took him away for a night. He was given a warning and set free.
My mum then forcibly took him to our GP and the Doctor diagnosed that he was suffering depression. He was given medication and he started taking it. Eventually, he himself decided not to take these anymore without our knowledge. He was still miffed about the GP and the Old Bill incident and he was soon back to his old ways. This time, he changed his ways. He would act nice or stay quiet around us but would then do his evil deeds in the background.
I got married three years ago and my wife moved in with me. My wife is housewife and stays at home with my Dad. He has been poisoning my wife's mind with fabricated stories and has now caused heightened tensions between me & my wife. It has become so bad that I am determined to divorce her in the near future.
At this point, I have just had it and would like to throw away all the bad apples from our house and start with a clean slate. I need to get rid of the Kingpin i.e. my Dad. I am infuriated that both me and my mum ( sister now lives on her own elsewhere ) work hard to put food on the table and pay the bills while my Dad stays home in comfort and causes problems for us.
My mum owns the house and both she and I pay the mortgage. My Dad had paid £10k deposit when we first bought the house.
Legally, what is the best way to throw him out of the house?
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