Hello all,
I am hoping that someone can help me?
I have recently resigned from a company that I have been working for since March 2020.
My reason for resigning is because I requested to have some time off work as my grandma has taken ill and I am unable to focus in work at the moment as my mental heath has been affected by this and I also need to be around my family supporting them and making the necessary arrangements for when the worst happens.
My employer showed no sympathy for my situation and it soon became apparent that she wasn’t bothered about my feelings and only bothered about the plan for work. I advised I need a few days to think about what I would like to do and I would speak to her on Monday (This conversation was had on a Thursday) so for 3 days I requested not to be contacted I advised at this point that my aim was to return to work in 1 weeks time providing I felt well enough to do my day to day role.
My employer contacted me every day and even sent a message via WhatsApp saying has your Nan died yet? Which I obviously find highly offensive. We then had a phone conversation on the Monday where again my employer showed no sympathy and told me to stop playing the victim and taking out my personal issues on work which I believe I wasn’t.
During this conversation she also advised that if I didn’t come back soon and sit my scheduled exam I would have no job role for the new year.
After this conversation I was in shock and it made me feel like I was being harassed and forced to come back into work before I am ready. I advised that at this time I can not give her a date to return and that I would be happy to get a sick note from the doctors and be on SSP.
The following day after much thought regarding what has happened in recent days I have decided today to hand my notice in with immediate affect because I now feel unsupported and uncomfortable in the work place.
After sending in my notice I received an email from my employer advising that I would need to pay back money for exams/studying that the company paid for for around £2500.
I don’t recall ever signing any document which states I would ever need to pay anything back if I left and also I feel it is unfair for her to make me pay for a qualification that I was unable to complete because I have been made to feel uncomfortable and has made me feel like I am now unable to work with her and leave my job and don’t currently have any income to pay back anything.
I also have been advised that I had holidays 23 days plus bank holidays I have only taken 2 days holiday this year so would I now be entitled to my holiday pay or could she take the holiday pay fro. Me and use it as a part payment for the money she feels that I owe to her?
Any help would be much appreciated
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