Hi,
Been lurking around this forum looking for advice for a quite a while now, well where to begin?
In 2005 I was made homeless due to the death of my parents and subsequently bought a property as I was on a fairly decent salary at the time, I took out a loan to cover legal costs etc and the things that had to be paid up front and I got a credit card from the same bank which helped me to furnish the property (Pretty irresponsible I know) but at the time I was young, single and the repayments really were not much of an issue to me at all, I paid these debts consistently for 3 years until in 2008 I had to take a demotion at work or risk losing my job completely, I lost a huge chunk of my income and the repayments became more and more difficult, around the same time I met my now wife who had 2 children and long story short got married, so I had gone in the space of a few months from a single man with decent salary and some debts to a married man with 2 children and a lower income, something had to give and it wasn't going to be my new found family, I sold my house to save money but due the the flagging economy it was worth less than I had paid for it all those years earlier and only just brought in enough to clear the mortgage. So I was left with approx £15k worth of debts and nowhere to live, I had an opportunity to move abroad and get work and housing and so I took it, and me and my new family moved overseas, It was never my intention to stop paying my debts however due my new stepsons developing a medical condition and some other changes in circumstances I first started to fall behind on payments before eventually stopped paying my debts alltogether. This has been on my conscience ever since and I have felt guilty from the day I cancelled the last standing order. Since then I have moved back to the UK I have had no contact with my creditors for 4 years and no payments have been made on any of the 3 accounts (2 credit cards and a bank loan) I know that if I wait another year these debts will become statute barred (Taken out in Scotland) and since none of the creditors know where I live etc the chances of corresponding with them before this occurs is slight so realistically I have the option of waiting a few months and sort of forgetting about these debts. However as I stated above this has been on my mind for some years and caused me great concern, I am now in the fortunate position of having worked myself back up to a decent lvl of salary and my wish is to repay these debts which according to my credit file now stand at just over £18k to 3 creditors in total, I could pay in £600 monthly towards these debts without too much disruption to my life as it is now and crucially I would finally have peace of mind about the debt. The problem is I dont know where to start? If I contact the creditor and state my wish to pay the debt will they demand payment in full immediately? What are my rights, I know I havent paid for a long time but I want to pay now and am able to offer I think a realistic payment amount but I honestly dont know where to begin, at the moment I am living happily and quietly in a rented accomodation but if I initiate contact with these companies will I start beig harrased by doorsteppers etc. Any advice/help that can be offered to someone who dearly wants to pay his way out of his mess would be greatly appreciated. thank you in advance.
Been lurking around this forum looking for advice for a quite a while now, well where to begin?
In 2005 I was made homeless due to the death of my parents and subsequently bought a property as I was on a fairly decent salary at the time, I took out a loan to cover legal costs etc and the things that had to be paid up front and I got a credit card from the same bank which helped me to furnish the property (Pretty irresponsible I know) but at the time I was young, single and the repayments really were not much of an issue to me at all, I paid these debts consistently for 3 years until in 2008 I had to take a demotion at work or risk losing my job completely, I lost a huge chunk of my income and the repayments became more and more difficult, around the same time I met my now wife who had 2 children and long story short got married, so I had gone in the space of a few months from a single man with decent salary and some debts to a married man with 2 children and a lower income, something had to give and it wasn't going to be my new found family, I sold my house to save money but due the the flagging economy it was worth less than I had paid for it all those years earlier and only just brought in enough to clear the mortgage. So I was left with approx £15k worth of debts and nowhere to live, I had an opportunity to move abroad and get work and housing and so I took it, and me and my new family moved overseas, It was never my intention to stop paying my debts however due my new stepsons developing a medical condition and some other changes in circumstances I first started to fall behind on payments before eventually stopped paying my debts alltogether. This has been on my conscience ever since and I have felt guilty from the day I cancelled the last standing order. Since then I have moved back to the UK I have had no contact with my creditors for 4 years and no payments have been made on any of the 3 accounts (2 credit cards and a bank loan) I know that if I wait another year these debts will become statute barred (Taken out in Scotland) and since none of the creditors know where I live etc the chances of corresponding with them before this occurs is slight so realistically I have the option of waiting a few months and sort of forgetting about these debts. However as I stated above this has been on my mind for some years and caused me great concern, I am now in the fortunate position of having worked myself back up to a decent lvl of salary and my wish is to repay these debts which according to my credit file now stand at just over £18k to 3 creditors in total, I could pay in £600 monthly towards these debts without too much disruption to my life as it is now and crucially I would finally have peace of mind about the debt. The problem is I dont know where to start? If I contact the creditor and state my wish to pay the debt will they demand payment in full immediately? What are my rights, I know I havent paid for a long time but I want to pay now and am able to offer I think a realistic payment amount but I honestly dont know where to begin, at the moment I am living happily and quietly in a rented accomodation but if I initiate contact with these companies will I start beig harrased by doorsteppers etc. Any advice/help that can be offered to someone who dearly wants to pay his way out of his mess would be greatly appreciated. thank you in advance.
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