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Hello all, please can you help? I was engadged to my ex wife for 12 years, had 2 children, then lost a 3rd, she had a Placenta Adbrubtion, 2 more children, then we married. 9 months later she told me she didn't love me and I was suicidal. I saw a counsellor, and was not able to communicate with the wife. In that time I discovered she had moved my cousin in and is in a relationship with him. I missed my children and found it hard to see them because he was there. My eldest daughter was told I didn't want to see her and I was told she didnt want to see me. A lie. After another attempted suicide, I missed my Daughter, my mum communicated with her and I was able to see her. My car was registered at my mums address. I lived there briefly then got a bedsit. Then my eldest daughter moved in with me. I had to drive 3 miles to take her to school and to save time, I parked in my street when possible. On 3 occasions I parked my car on the double yellow lines, outside a piece of land waiting to be built upon. I was issued tickets and emailed the local authority stating it wasn't fair, sometimes it would take longer to walk to the car, lazy I know, but if it was raining I needed to keep my daughter happy, not miserable walking in the cold and rain to get to the car. I had a job getting her to school, she just wanted to be with me all the time, eventualy her attendance suffered and the Education Social Worker got involved.
My mum always gave me my post that she was still recieving, my address wasn't secure so my car remained registared there and my post still went there. Everytime I got a letter about the Parking Tickets I ignored them, some have been binned I think. I'm still struggling with the seperation, trying to see my other children, dealing with ongoing issues with my daughter,divorce and contact orders, a residency order, working and dealing with other debts etc includeing going through a Red Light because I wasn't paying attention and a speeding camera when I was angry.(Sorry).
We have moved out of the bedsit, the Education Social Worker helped us to get a house and we moved in in July this year. I carried on as normal. My mum called to say that I was going to have a Bailiff visit at my mums address from Newlyn. She phoned them and said shed never heard of me, we have different surnames. So they wouldnt hasstle my mum, I phoned Newlyn on Friday 14 12 12, to ask if I could make a payment plan as I couldn't afford the £1000+ they were asking for. I was given the Bailiffs number and told to ring him. I rang, told him I couldnt afford the cost and could we come to a monthly payment plan. He said if I pay the biggest debt off £485 then he would agree! I cant do that, and he told me Bailiff Action would take place.
Well, I wish I'd just paid the ticketts in the first place, but with everything thats gone on, I just ignored it. Now I'm awaiting a visit and need advice. Where do I begin?
Sorry its longwinded, I have summarised the best I could. Please could someone help?
Thank you
Mike
My mum always gave me my post that she was still recieving, my address wasn't secure so my car remained registared there and my post still went there. Everytime I got a letter about the Parking Tickets I ignored them, some have been binned I think. I'm still struggling with the seperation, trying to see my other children, dealing with ongoing issues with my daughter,divorce and contact orders, a residency order, working and dealing with other debts etc includeing going through a Red Light because I wasn't paying attention and a speeding camera when I was angry.(Sorry).
We have moved out of the bedsit, the Education Social Worker helped us to get a house and we moved in in July this year. I carried on as normal. My mum called to say that I was going to have a Bailiff visit at my mums address from Newlyn. She phoned them and said shed never heard of me, we have different surnames. So they wouldnt hasstle my mum, I phoned Newlyn on Friday 14 12 12, to ask if I could make a payment plan as I couldn't afford the £1000+ they were asking for. I was given the Bailiffs number and told to ring him. I rang, told him I couldnt afford the cost and could we come to a monthly payment plan. He said if I pay the biggest debt off £485 then he would agree! I cant do that, and he told me Bailiff Action would take place.
Well, I wish I'd just paid the ticketts in the first place, but with everything thats gone on, I just ignored it. Now I'm awaiting a visit and need advice. Where do I begin?
Sorry its longwinded, I have summarised the best I could. Please could someone help?
Thank you
Mike
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