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Re: marston bailiff help needed
Hi KData, and I am sorry for your loss. FWIW, I believe such losses to be only temporary - or temporal - but that is not a discussion to be had here - it is simply my own way of dealing with such inexplicable pain.
I'm glad to see that you're getting help from those here who can give it. From my unlearnéd standpoint, may I convey my view. Please bear with me - I'm trying to think outside of the box you're in, right now.
It seems that you were 'done' for driving a vehicle with a defective exhaust and number plate a while ago, by a Police Road Traffic Officer, and lawfully issued with a ticket of some sort to that effect.
It seems that you COMPLETELY IGNORED to respond to this ticket, and probably to subsequent requests to deal with it.
It seems that you are nothing more than an irresponsible boy racer who really doesn't give a monkey's, and thinks he can get away with doing whatever he wants, by simply ignoring the Law.
If you're still reading, then I guess you are now quite angry - but if you're still reading, then you are clearly prepared to listen to what you may not want to hear. In that case, you seem to me to be a reasonable man, sir.
May I now ask you to notice that I have used the phrase "It seems..." in the above comments. I haven't said, "It seems TO ME..."
If you're still with me, mate, the point I am trying to make - and probably very clumsily - is that I feel that the above impression is what the "Legal Machinery" has of you. I respectfully ask you to try and put yourself in their position. What I have said above is perhaps what seems TO THEM to be the person you are.
...and with the utmost respect and heartfelt sympathy, I feel I have a better idea of your position than perhaps they have - as do us guys here. You are QUITE CLEARLY - a much better person than that.
What I am trying to say to you, KData, is that - perhaps - if you could make it clear to Marstons, and all who have a say in this, that you have suffered a loss far greater than losing a silencer and a piece of perspex, and that you have been unable to respond respectfully to their lawful requests, due to this - then they may at least find something in what you are saying to give them good reason to back off a little.
There are still human beings operating within this machinery, mate - but you have to appeal to them sometimes. I guess I am saying that you need to make it clear that you accept that your recent loss has not given you immunity to the law, but that your circumstances might just allow them to be lenient in imposing further charges...
You may need to provide paperwork to support your appeal for such leniency. PLEASE - do NOT let them make you feel as though you are "USING" your dear Son's departure for this. It is nowt but a "REASON." And you are being reasonable, are you not, good sir ?
I apologise if I have offended anyone here. Just trying to help in my own way.
Hi KData, and I am sorry for your loss. FWIW, I believe such losses to be only temporary - or temporal - but that is not a discussion to be had here - it is simply my own way of dealing with such inexplicable pain.
I'm glad to see that you're getting help from those here who can give it. From my unlearnéd standpoint, may I convey my view. Please bear with me - I'm trying to think outside of the box you're in, right now.
It seems that you were 'done' for driving a vehicle with a defective exhaust and number plate a while ago, by a Police Road Traffic Officer, and lawfully issued with a ticket of some sort to that effect.
It seems that you COMPLETELY IGNORED to respond to this ticket, and probably to subsequent requests to deal with it.
It seems that you are nothing more than an irresponsible boy racer who really doesn't give a monkey's, and thinks he can get away with doing whatever he wants, by simply ignoring the Law.
If you're still reading, then I guess you are now quite angry - but if you're still reading, then you are clearly prepared to listen to what you may not want to hear. In that case, you seem to me to be a reasonable man, sir.
May I now ask you to notice that I have used the phrase "It seems..." in the above comments. I haven't said, "It seems TO ME..."
If you're still with me, mate, the point I am trying to make - and probably very clumsily - is that I feel that the above impression is what the "Legal Machinery" has of you. I respectfully ask you to try and put yourself in their position. What I have said above is perhaps what seems TO THEM to be the person you are.
...and with the utmost respect and heartfelt sympathy, I feel I have a better idea of your position than perhaps they have - as do us guys here. You are QUITE CLEARLY - a much better person than that.
What I am trying to say to you, KData, is that - perhaps - if you could make it clear to Marstons, and all who have a say in this, that you have suffered a loss far greater than losing a silencer and a piece of perspex, and that you have been unable to respond respectfully to their lawful requests, due to this - then they may at least find something in what you are saying to give them good reason to back off a little.
There are still human beings operating within this machinery, mate - but you have to appeal to them sometimes. I guess I am saying that you need to make it clear that you accept that your recent loss has not given you immunity to the law, but that your circumstances might just allow them to be lenient in imposing further charges...
You may need to provide paperwork to support your appeal for such leniency. PLEASE - do NOT let them make you feel as though you are "USING" your dear Son's departure for this. It is nowt but a "REASON." And you are being reasonable, are you not, good sir ?
I apologise if I have offended anyone here. Just trying to help in my own way.
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