RLP

[Matita]

Hi I need help . I did something really stupid and that I知 never ever going to do again . I got caugh shoplifting at tkmaxx. They made me sign a bunning notice and made me paid for the things I was trying to steal . Am I going to get a RLP .. I知 so scared

[des8]

Hi, no need to be scared of anything.

You have been banned from TKMAXX ... I would consider that a benefit!
You paid for the goods, so the store lost nothing, but did you retain the items?

You most probably will receive a number of demands from RLP for some imagined losses, but you can happily ignore these.
They aren't very nice letters as they contain veiled threats about legal action, but this won't happen.
Many years ago they tried court action and were soundly trounced and have never been back since.
so just ignore RLP

[Matita]

But I still live with my parents and I don稚 want them to know . What can I do ?

[Matita]

Can I change the address ?

[des8]

I doubt there is anything you can do.

You don't mention your age, but in any event your post should be private
If your parents will inevitably find out I would advise you break the news to them yourself, as it will be less of a shock to them

It may be embarrassing, but i would hope that supportive parents would appreciate your actions were out of character, were of a minor nature (hardly the crime of the century) and that there was no loss to the retailer.
Altho' they may be surprised and shocked, hopefully they will see the incident in perspective and give you the support you need

[Matita]

Ok thank you. I will talk to them today . I値l let you know

[Scot22]

Excellent advice from Des8. Parents should never be underestimated.
I'm sure nearly everyone does silly things when they are younger. The important thing is to learn from the experience.