I laid out my position and he's gone off to talk to them. I was very clear and insistent that he understand and repeat back to me that he understood my position as he kept conflating and confusing everything and at one point he told me I was wrong about POFA and their right to pursue the keeper. I said I had done my research and recognise that he may believe that but this is a case based on evidence not opinion and I would like to continue with what I currently understand to be correct.
I then pointed out that his mediation seemed weighted in their favour as he said 'they must have a case if they have come this far' to which i responded that this is not the language of a person who has no vested interest in the outcome and he did agree with that. I was very nice about it!
Basically I had to properly wrangle him to get him to understand the position, stop arguing with me, and to advocate for it appropriately. He then asked if i had a number in mind, and would i consider settling and right now i said I would like him to put my position that they should drop the case first, although I am here in the sprit of mediation and if there were an acceptable amount they would like to propose then i would be open to hearing it.
He's gone off to tell them so let's see. I'm shaking!
I then pointed out that his mediation seemed weighted in their favour as he said 'they must have a case if they have come this far' to which i responded that this is not the language of a person who has no vested interest in the outcome and he did agree with that. I was very nice about it!
Basically I had to properly wrangle him to get him to understand the position, stop arguing with me, and to advocate for it appropriately. He then asked if i had a number in mind, and would i consider settling and right now i said I would like him to put my position that they should drop the case first, although I am here in the sprit of mediation and if there were an acceptable amount they would like to propose then i would be open to hearing it.
He's gone off to tell them so let's see. I'm shaking!


) and remember there is no certainty of a win (despite what MSE sometimes say) and court is always a bit of a lottery.
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