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Son is in college living in same flat as his GF. To cut a long story short shes gone off with someone else.
Its been awful. BUT its escalated between them. Her new BF has threatened him - he did the right thing here and reported the threatening message to the college who advised the lad he wasnt allowed within proximity for 60 days. T
There's been the usual demanding of stuff back etc and some childish cutting up of presents and handing them back. Son hasnt been perfect and I told him some of the stuff he did was petty, spiteful, and unnecessary.
The other night he called security because his ex and her friend who battering his door trying to get him to give a painting back she'd done. He stubbornly refused - just give it back I told him.
Anyway, we've got him a move out of the flat on monday to get away from it all.
This weekend though we had a message from his GF mother without giving details that our son had been harrassing her and it was illegal and the police were getting involved. We've sat him down - hes a good kid to be honest. Hes got Aspergers so I can understand sometimes his emotions run away with him but hes an awful liar he always owns up so Im 99.9% sure theres nothing else.
His ex always struck me as not 100% being right in the head, same with this mother. Obvious concern is that some allegations may be made - when they find out hes moved out that won't go down well. He just wants to move out and move on with college to be fair to him.
Is there even a way I can get something basically telling them to stay away from him? Also as a pre-emptive thing on record in case this escalates again?
Its been awful. BUT its escalated between them. Her new BF has threatened him - he did the right thing here and reported the threatening message to the college who advised the lad he wasnt allowed within proximity for 60 days. T
There's been the usual demanding of stuff back etc and some childish cutting up of presents and handing them back. Son hasnt been perfect and I told him some of the stuff he did was petty, spiteful, and unnecessary.
The other night he called security because his ex and her friend who battering his door trying to get him to give a painting back she'd done. He stubbornly refused - just give it back I told him.
Anyway, we've got him a move out of the flat on monday to get away from it all.
This weekend though we had a message from his GF mother without giving details that our son had been harrassing her and it was illegal and the police were getting involved. We've sat him down - hes a good kid to be honest. Hes got Aspergers so I can understand sometimes his emotions run away with him but hes an awful liar he always owns up so Im 99.9% sure theres nothing else.
His ex always struck me as not 100% being right in the head, same with this mother. Obvious concern is that some allegations may be made - when they find out hes moved out that won't go down well. He just wants to move out and move on with college to be fair to him.
Is there even a way I can get something basically telling them to stay away from him? Also as a pre-emptive thing on record in case this escalates again?
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