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I have applied for a Emrgency Prohibited Steps Order against my ex partner, my son’s mother.
My sons mother is from South East Asia and we have been together for 7 years, during the time I have provided everything financially whilst her and my sons mother were living in Asia, I visited multiple times a year and as my son got to 5 years of age we decided to live life in England, I applied for a British passport for my son and for a unmarried partner visa for my sons mother, we have lived here for 15 months and I have helped her create a CV and apply for work. She got accepted for work on month 13 and once she received the job she changed, she stated she didn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore and wanted to take our son back to Asia, I explained I couldn’t allow that to happen but that we could separate and she apply for a parental visa instead. However she decided to contact the police and Social Services and say I have been controlling her financially, stopping her speaking with friends and family and have been harmful to our son. All of which are false and she has no evidence to substantiate her claims. She has stolen £2100 from me and about £3000 worth of gold belonging to our son and other electronics belonging to our son and I have evidence of her saying if I don’t do what she says she will kill herself and our son and other evidence showing she has said multiple times she will take him away from me to Asia and he will never see me again.
She is now living separately to myself and our child and has not made any effort to see him.
I have put an application in place for a Prohibited Steps Order to stop her doing this but she is now making claims to Social Services that my son is malnourished, staying awake all night playing video games and isn’t being well taken care of.
I have a hearing coming up in which I need to represent myself for the best interests of our child and am hoping to seek some advice please.
My sons mother is from South East Asia and we have been together for 7 years, during the time I have provided everything financially whilst her and my sons mother were living in Asia, I visited multiple times a year and as my son got to 5 years of age we decided to live life in England, I applied for a British passport for my son and for a unmarried partner visa for my sons mother, we have lived here for 15 months and I have helped her create a CV and apply for work. She got accepted for work on month 13 and once she received the job she changed, she stated she didn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore and wanted to take our son back to Asia, I explained I couldn’t allow that to happen but that we could separate and she apply for a parental visa instead. However she decided to contact the police and Social Services and say I have been controlling her financially, stopping her speaking with friends and family and have been harmful to our son. All of which are false and she has no evidence to substantiate her claims. She has stolen £2100 from me and about £3000 worth of gold belonging to our son and other electronics belonging to our son and I have evidence of her saying if I don’t do what she says she will kill herself and our son and other evidence showing she has said multiple times she will take him away from me to Asia and he will never see me again.
She is now living separately to myself and our child and has not made any effort to see him.
I have put an application in place for a Prohibited Steps Order to stop her doing this but she is now making claims to Social Services that my son is malnourished, staying awake all night playing video games and isn’t being well taken care of.
I have a hearing coming up in which I need to represent myself for the best interests of our child and am hoping to seek some advice please.
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