Hello everyone,
I have an Employment Tribunal coming up (CMD first) and it is in relation to disability discrimination at work. I have been absent from work for just over five months. I attended a grievance meeting and told them everything about how i had been treated at work, which they denied in the Outcome letter, and also threw in some lies about me. At the grievance meeting, i informed the manager that i would not be returning to work as i felt too humiliated. Prior to the meeting, i received three letters which said my employer would be coming to my home to discuss my absence. I did not respond to these letters as i did not feel ready to speak to them. Obviously my employer knows that i am taking them to a tribunal and no longer wish to work for them but i received another letter a couple of weeks ago headed 'Sickness Absence Review'. The letter said that my manager and another would be coming to my home. On the day of the meeting, i got numerous phone calls and voice mails left, which i did not reply to. I was getting myself worked up everytime my phone went and i saw it was them calling. A voicemail from my manager said that they would be coming to my home whether they heard back from me or not, but nobody came anyway. I received another letter today from my employer which once again said that they would be coming to my home to discuss my absence and listen to my thoughts on returning to work. It says that if they do not hear from me then they will take that as i am happy for the meeting to go ahead. I do not wish to speak to my employer and would prefer to leave things to the tribunal but i don't want to appear as though i am being awkward. I feel harassed with the letters, calls and voice messages and wish they would leave me alone. Do i need to attend a Sickness Absence Meeting, given the circumstances? They know i am not going back, so why do they continue to hound me? In the grievance Outcome letter, they said that i acted in a threatening/aggressive manner and this is one of the reasons i don't want to meet with them. I do not want to give them the opportunity to lie about me again. I'd like to send an email stating politely that i do not wish any further contact but i don't know what to write and i don't know if that would reflect badly on me at the tribunal. Any help is appreciated, thank you.
I have an Employment Tribunal coming up (CMD first) and it is in relation to disability discrimination at work. I have been absent from work for just over five months. I attended a grievance meeting and told them everything about how i had been treated at work, which they denied in the Outcome letter, and also threw in some lies about me. At the grievance meeting, i informed the manager that i would not be returning to work as i felt too humiliated. Prior to the meeting, i received three letters which said my employer would be coming to my home to discuss my absence. I did not respond to these letters as i did not feel ready to speak to them. Obviously my employer knows that i am taking them to a tribunal and no longer wish to work for them but i received another letter a couple of weeks ago headed 'Sickness Absence Review'. The letter said that my manager and another would be coming to my home. On the day of the meeting, i got numerous phone calls and voice mails left, which i did not reply to. I was getting myself worked up everytime my phone went and i saw it was them calling. A voicemail from my manager said that they would be coming to my home whether they heard back from me or not, but nobody came anyway. I received another letter today from my employer which once again said that they would be coming to my home to discuss my absence and listen to my thoughts on returning to work. It says that if they do not hear from me then they will take that as i am happy for the meeting to go ahead. I do not wish to speak to my employer and would prefer to leave things to the tribunal but i don't want to appear as though i am being awkward. I feel harassed with the letters, calls and voice messages and wish they would leave me alone. Do i need to attend a Sickness Absence Meeting, given the circumstances? They know i am not going back, so why do they continue to hound me? In the grievance Outcome letter, they said that i acted in a threatening/aggressive manner and this is one of the reasons i don't want to meet with them. I do not want to give them the opportunity to lie about me again. I'd like to send an email stating politely that i do not wish any further contact but i don't know what to write and i don't know if that would reflect badly on me at the tribunal. Any help is appreciated, thank you.
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