Re: Wrongly handled?
Unfortunately "they" are highly unlikely to apologise in case it were to be seen as an admission of wrongdoing and that would expose them to litigation. Ranks will be closing.
To whom are you writing?
Only the most senior are likely to have the confidence and job security to react on a more human level. Perhaps a cri de coeur to the CEO stating the facts and saying that you would appreciate an apology for the breach of confidentiality but are not seeking an admission of guilt - and that your SD should, in all conscience, have a decent reference?
In mitigation for your SD's error of judgment in helping her colleague to steal, there is the fact that the practice was so endemic that anyone coming into the work place would assume it to be tacitly condoned. As you say above, they should be glad of this opportunity to clean up the ethos.
SD's record of hard work and her sincere regret that she participated in (was drawn into) the customary dishonesty would also be worth mentioning.
I agree with Labman et al that anyattempt at legal redress would be an own goal.
I personally do find a strong letter and a virtual poke in the goolies to mine enemies to be cathartic, even if there is no tangible result (beyond the obvious) - but not everyone feels this way.
Unfortunately "they" are highly unlikely to apologise in case it were to be seen as an admission of wrongdoing and that would expose them to litigation. Ranks will be closing.
To whom are you writing?
Only the most senior are likely to have the confidence and job security to react on a more human level. Perhaps a cri de coeur to the CEO stating the facts and saying that you would appreciate an apology for the breach of confidentiality but are not seeking an admission of guilt - and that your SD should, in all conscience, have a decent reference?
In mitigation for your SD's error of judgment in helping her colleague to steal, there is the fact that the practice was so endemic that anyone coming into the work place would assume it to be tacitly condoned. As you say above, they should be glad of this opportunity to clean up the ethos.
SD's record of hard work and her sincere regret that she participated in (was drawn into) the customary dishonesty would also be worth mentioning.
I agree with Labman et al that anyattempt at legal redress would be an own goal.
I personally do find a strong letter and a virtual poke in the goolies to mine enemies to be cathartic, even if there is no tangible result (beyond the obvious) - but not everyone feels this way.
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