Need advice regarding terminating contract before investigation meeting.
I have been working for a company as a counsellor for nearly 4 years now (no issues). A month ago I suffered a string of unfortunate events including a miscarriage, an infection in my finger and news that a close relative was diagnosed with cancer.
This resulted in me being off work for 3 weeks (I work 2 days a week) & in order to receive stat sick pay I was asked to provide a doctor's note to cover me for the time period above.
My surgery has awful customer service and failed to offer me an appointment, let alone present me a sick note in time which made me worry about my finances due to being a single parent.
Stupidly, a close friend of mine who I confided in edited one for her sick notes for me (from same surgery) that I mailed on.
I was transparent about the reason I was off work (mainly due to miscarriage) & communicated with my employers for wellness check ins etc during this time too.
Today I get an email inviting me to an "investigation meeting" regarding a potentially fraudulent sick note so as you can imagine, I am now panicking. The meeting will be held with someone I do not really get along with and another member of staff who I have never even met before, so I do not feel comfortable attending anyway.
Secondly, after experiencing what I have done over the past month, I feel extremely fragile and vulnerable with my emotional/mental health being in poor condition.
Out of preservation of my own wellbeing I have ceased employment with the service immediately stating that I do not wish to put myself through any further stress etc relating to the above.
I have also stated my understanding that as I have ceased employment immediately and without notice, I am aware that I will not be entitled to any pay I may have been. I've confirmed that at present, my mental/emotional health however is more important than any financial factors.
In all honesty, I was going to hand my notice in anyway due to job dissatisfaction, however due to the circumstances I am now left feeling stupid, vulnerable and scared.
Any advice or comments etc welcome please..
I have been working for a company as a counsellor for nearly 4 years now (no issues). A month ago I suffered a string of unfortunate events including a miscarriage, an infection in my finger and news that a close relative was diagnosed with cancer.
This resulted in me being off work for 3 weeks (I work 2 days a week) & in order to receive stat sick pay I was asked to provide a doctor's note to cover me for the time period above.
My surgery has awful customer service and failed to offer me an appointment, let alone present me a sick note in time which made me worry about my finances due to being a single parent.
Stupidly, a close friend of mine who I confided in edited one for her sick notes for me (from same surgery) that I mailed on.
I was transparent about the reason I was off work (mainly due to miscarriage) & communicated with my employers for wellness check ins etc during this time too.
Today I get an email inviting me to an "investigation meeting" regarding a potentially fraudulent sick note so as you can imagine, I am now panicking. The meeting will be held with someone I do not really get along with and another member of staff who I have never even met before, so I do not feel comfortable attending anyway.
Secondly, after experiencing what I have done over the past month, I feel extremely fragile and vulnerable with my emotional/mental health being in poor condition.
Out of preservation of my own wellbeing I have ceased employment with the service immediately stating that I do not wish to put myself through any further stress etc relating to the above.
I have also stated my understanding that as I have ceased employment immediately and without notice, I am aware that I will not be entitled to any pay I may have been. I've confirmed that at present, my mental/emotional health however is more important than any financial factors.
In all honesty, I was going to hand my notice in anyway due to job dissatisfaction, however due to the circumstances I am now left feeling stupid, vulnerable and scared.
Any advice or comments etc welcome please..



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