Hi all,
I'll try to be as succinct as possible but thought it would be relevant to explain the situation. I have firm evidence already confirmed and bundled by the great solicitor I am using, but I would welcome varied opinions as he and his firm are being very measured in keeping my expectations low and the preliminary hearing is in July so I am getting quite nervous and have been scared to post anything publicly as claimant's action have terrified me.
I am an executive in the HR tech field and was with my employer for 6 years. At the time I left, I reported directly into the C-team and for the two years before departure had been having significant challenges with my current boss, our CTO, due to very abusive, erratic behaviour. I’d continually speak to HR about this and this transformed into our CEO acting as go-between when we had these challenges every few months.
In April 2024, I had significant stress due to my boss’ recent behaviour, so my doctor recommended I get screened for ADHD as he had been recording that I had been acting increasingly erratic over the last few month and it may be more than stress. I received a private diagnosis that confirmed it was severe in May 2024 and reported it to HR.
In June, I had significant issues with my boss, went to my CEO and reported it and discussed my stress and the ADHD diagnosis. Later that day, in our recorded monthly “leader to leader” meeting, my boss proceeds to give me an unannounced, final formal warning for “challenging his authority” as well as for “discussing his actions with others”. I have never had a previous disciplinary action, I wasn’t given opportunity to challenge the warning, I wasn’t told anyone could accompany me and I was provided no proof of any of his claims.
Two weeks later I was put at risk of redundancy because of “lack of performance”, locked out of company systems because they “were concerned I would harm the company’s code” and offered a very low, taxable settlement package of two months pay plus leave to “go quietly”. To clarify, the technology team I manage has been the most profitable area of the company since my first year, I have won company performance awards year-on-year and was just promoted to Executive Vice President in December 2023.
I signed off with stress, and two weeks later my exact job was given to another colleague. I challenged this in the redundancy consultation we had and was told that it, technically, it wasn’t my exact job as this person was based in the US and the decision was made as our customers prefer “someone based in the US who is a native language speaker English speaker because the US is our biggest target market”. This is completely untrue. I am not native born but speak and write English well and I’ve led our global technology team for 4 years.
They sent another offer, which I refused, and the next day and in the 2 weeks after, they sent 3 very career damaging and untrue emails to the entire company indirectly implying that I am not well mentally, directly stating that I am trying to harm the company’s reputation and warning employees to stay clear of me. These were sent to me by several concerned colleagues and it impacted my stress leave and made it much worse.
After this, I filed a grievance and requested an independent investigator, which was initially refused, so I then contacted ACAS. The company refused early conciliation, and never actioned the redundancy or the grievance so I filed an ET1. I finally received the grievance outcome in December 2024 and it was a short, complete whitewash that addressed none of my points and simply re-iterated the company’s justification for the sham redundancy (that still hadn’t resolved), why the company was right in this and why the warning I received was valid even without evidence presented to me. They said they believed the evidence that I presented to them, including the slanderous emails, to all be “confidential” so they refused to analyse any evidence I provided. The outcome also said the company was unaware of my ADHD and HR and my CEO said that I had never reported any challenges with my boss which I have evidence of otherwise. I then made aware that my boss would be leaving the company in January.
They then refused to pay my annual bonus in December which should have been roughly £52K, even though it is not contractually dependent on if I am on sick leave. They just won’t reply to any communications about it. This financially crushed my family as I had been on SSP only for months, so I told them I would be coming back to work in January. Then, later that evening, I was sent via email a letter of termination for SOSR due to the "significant breakdown of trust I had created with my boss" (who was in the process of leaving the company). Littered through the letter, they kept mentioning that “we were going to make you redundant anyway but wanted to respect your sick leave” and “you would use confidential information to harm our business so we don't trust you”. I appealed, the termination was upheld and was further told in the reply that, because I filed an ET1, I’ve broken trust with the company.
To end, I’ve sent two DSARs which they’ve been obstructive about, didn’t include what I asked for and were in impossible to search or navigate formats (ICO already on this); I’ve raised another ET1 for automatic unfair dismissal (due to saying the ET1 was a cause of breakdown of trust), illegal deduction of wages (as bonus and holiday still unpaid), disability discrimination (for saying I never reported ADHD when I have written evidence I did), victimisation and harassment (due to several documented instances in the interim).
If I have firm evidence to prove the above, my questions are:
Thank you.
I'll try to be as succinct as possible but thought it would be relevant to explain the situation. I have firm evidence already confirmed and bundled by the great solicitor I am using, but I would welcome varied opinions as he and his firm are being very measured in keeping my expectations low and the preliminary hearing is in July so I am getting quite nervous and have been scared to post anything publicly as claimant's action have terrified me.
I am an executive in the HR tech field and was with my employer for 6 years. At the time I left, I reported directly into the C-team and for the two years before departure had been having significant challenges with my current boss, our CTO, due to very abusive, erratic behaviour. I’d continually speak to HR about this and this transformed into our CEO acting as go-between when we had these challenges every few months.
In April 2024, I had significant stress due to my boss’ recent behaviour, so my doctor recommended I get screened for ADHD as he had been recording that I had been acting increasingly erratic over the last few month and it may be more than stress. I received a private diagnosis that confirmed it was severe in May 2024 and reported it to HR.
In June, I had significant issues with my boss, went to my CEO and reported it and discussed my stress and the ADHD diagnosis. Later that day, in our recorded monthly “leader to leader” meeting, my boss proceeds to give me an unannounced, final formal warning for “challenging his authority” as well as for “discussing his actions with others”. I have never had a previous disciplinary action, I wasn’t given opportunity to challenge the warning, I wasn’t told anyone could accompany me and I was provided no proof of any of his claims.
Two weeks later I was put at risk of redundancy because of “lack of performance”, locked out of company systems because they “were concerned I would harm the company’s code” and offered a very low, taxable settlement package of two months pay plus leave to “go quietly”. To clarify, the technology team I manage has been the most profitable area of the company since my first year, I have won company performance awards year-on-year and was just promoted to Executive Vice President in December 2023.
I signed off with stress, and two weeks later my exact job was given to another colleague. I challenged this in the redundancy consultation we had and was told that it, technically, it wasn’t my exact job as this person was based in the US and the decision was made as our customers prefer “someone based in the US who is a native language speaker English speaker because the US is our biggest target market”. This is completely untrue. I am not native born but speak and write English well and I’ve led our global technology team for 4 years.
They sent another offer, which I refused, and the next day and in the 2 weeks after, they sent 3 very career damaging and untrue emails to the entire company indirectly implying that I am not well mentally, directly stating that I am trying to harm the company’s reputation and warning employees to stay clear of me. These were sent to me by several concerned colleagues and it impacted my stress leave and made it much worse.
After this, I filed a grievance and requested an independent investigator, which was initially refused, so I then contacted ACAS. The company refused early conciliation, and never actioned the redundancy or the grievance so I filed an ET1. I finally received the grievance outcome in December 2024 and it was a short, complete whitewash that addressed none of my points and simply re-iterated the company’s justification for the sham redundancy (that still hadn’t resolved), why the company was right in this and why the warning I received was valid even without evidence presented to me. They said they believed the evidence that I presented to them, including the slanderous emails, to all be “confidential” so they refused to analyse any evidence I provided. The outcome also said the company was unaware of my ADHD and HR and my CEO said that I had never reported any challenges with my boss which I have evidence of otherwise. I then made aware that my boss would be leaving the company in January.
They then refused to pay my annual bonus in December which should have been roughly £52K, even though it is not contractually dependent on if I am on sick leave. They just won’t reply to any communications about it. This financially crushed my family as I had been on SSP only for months, so I told them I would be coming back to work in January. Then, later that evening, I was sent via email a letter of termination for SOSR due to the "significant breakdown of trust I had created with my boss" (who was in the process of leaving the company). Littered through the letter, they kept mentioning that “we were going to make you redundant anyway but wanted to respect your sick leave” and “you would use confidential information to harm our business so we don't trust you”. I appealed, the termination was upheld and was further told in the reply that, because I filed an ET1, I’ve broken trust with the company.
To end, I’ve sent two DSARs which they’ve been obstructive about, didn’t include what I asked for and were in impossible to search or navigate formats (ICO already on this); I’ve raised another ET1 for automatic unfair dismissal (due to saying the ET1 was a cause of breakdown of trust), illegal deduction of wages (as bonus and holiday still unpaid), disability discrimination (for saying I never reported ADHD when I have written evidence I did), victimisation and harassment (due to several documented instances in the interim).
If I have firm evidence to prove the above, my questions are:
- None of their procedures followed ACAS process. If, in the end they use SOSR, does this remove the possibility of uplift? Does the possibility of uplift increase if we can prove clear, underhanded behaviour?
- I’ve been threatened multiple times by them (in without prejudice emails) telling me that if I don’t accept their settlement offers, I could be penalised by tribunal as I am being vexatious. How often does this occur and is this a possibility?
- Their ET3 had contradictions with their previous written statements such as saying I had a history of “issues with my boss” even though they had previously said in the grievance transcripts that there was no reports of me ever having issues with my boss and said they sent me all of my HR file in the DSAR yet it only contained my initial work contract.
- I have a transcript from an interview with HR that says I did mention my ADHD to them but in an “offhand way” and I never “provided them with written proof in the form of medical evidence” so they didn’t action it. It also says this in the ET3. This wouldn’t allow them to completely ignore my disability claims, would it?
- In the first DSAR, there are two emails from right before they sent the “at risk” email that aren’t marked confidential that are conversations about how to make my redundancy seem genuine. In these emails they discuss how they can make it look genuine, how they can ensure I go quietly and how they can reduce any chance of me being able to win should it go to tribunal. My solicitor is currently reviewing them but I’d like any opinion on if you’d believe these would fall into the legally protected category ad will be inadmissible.
- If all I am writing is true with clear evidence does it seem likely that reasonable counsel would tell them to settle beforehand?
- The malicious emails that were sent are very disturbing to me and could hurt my future career. Should I ask for written retractions as part of what I will accept as a settlement or is that too much?
- Could an SOSR be grounded in a breakdown in trust between an employee and someone who has left the company? Much of their communication relies on this.
- Is it automatic unfair dismissal because they are terminating me for exercising a statutory right?
Thank you.

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