Hello,
Thank you in advance for reading—I’d be very grateful for any thoughts.
I got married in October last year. We hired a band through a company and had a contract with that company.
A young lady, “Lucy” (not her real name), contacted us claiming to be the band’s assistant and said she’d attend our wedding with them. She also said, according to our contract, she and the six band members would need accommodation and food. The contract mentioned accommodation but not food. To be accommodating, I increased our catering by 7 at £35 per head.
Lucy offered to take our wedding photos professionally at a reasonable rate, as she would already be there. We agreed over phone and text; she clarified the fee, what photos she’d take, and that we were hiring her separately from the band. Payment was to be made upon receipt of the photos.
At the wedding, Lucy and the band performed as expected. Lucy took photos throughout the day. A side note: she unexpectedly ordered Domino’s pizzas for herself and the band, not touching the £245 worth of catering she'd had me order!
After the wedding, Lucy promised to send the photos. A month later, I sent a friendly text—no reply. Another month later, still no response. Calls went straight to voicemail. Eventually, my Mum contacted her, and Lucy promised she had emailed them and would resend—nothing arrived.
Eleven months after the wedding, I finally spoke to her by phone. She apologized, claiming she had been busy, and promised delivery the week of 18th September—still nothing. I sent a WhatsApp on 21st September—unread and ignored. Our first wedding anniversary has now passed, and we have no photos, only a few taken on mobile phones in which Lucy appears in almost all of them.
I find it bizarre that she hasn’t simply admitted she hasn’t got the photos. I haven’t paid her, and I don’t have a physical address—only her full name, phone, email, and business name (not registered on Companies House). Her social media shows ongoing wedding photography work.
I want the photos or, if none exist, compensation for the upset caused. I also want to prevent her from misleading other couples.
I could contact the band company, but I wanted advice here first:
Thank you immensely.
Thank you in advance for reading—I’d be very grateful for any thoughts.
I got married in October last year. We hired a band through a company and had a contract with that company.
A young lady, “Lucy” (not her real name), contacted us claiming to be the band’s assistant and said she’d attend our wedding with them. She also said, according to our contract, she and the six band members would need accommodation and food. The contract mentioned accommodation but not food. To be accommodating, I increased our catering by 7 at £35 per head.
Lucy offered to take our wedding photos professionally at a reasonable rate, as she would already be there. We agreed over phone and text; she clarified the fee, what photos she’d take, and that we were hiring her separately from the band. Payment was to be made upon receipt of the photos.
At the wedding, Lucy and the band performed as expected. Lucy took photos throughout the day. A side note: she unexpectedly ordered Domino’s pizzas for herself and the band, not touching the £245 worth of catering she'd had me order!
After the wedding, Lucy promised to send the photos. A month later, I sent a friendly text—no reply. Another month later, still no response. Calls went straight to voicemail. Eventually, my Mum contacted her, and Lucy promised she had emailed them and would resend—nothing arrived.
Eleven months after the wedding, I finally spoke to her by phone. She apologized, claiming she had been busy, and promised delivery the week of 18th September—still nothing. I sent a WhatsApp on 21st September—unread and ignored. Our first wedding anniversary has now passed, and we have no photos, only a few taken on mobile phones in which Lucy appears in almost all of them.
I find it bizarre that she hasn’t simply admitted she hasn’t got the photos. I haven’t paid her, and I don’t have a physical address—only her full name, phone, email, and business name (not registered on Companies House). Her social media shows ongoing wedding photography work.
I want the photos or, if none exist, compensation for the upset caused. I also want to prevent her from misleading other couples.
I could contact the band company, but I wanted advice here first:
- Do I have grounds to take Lucy to court?
- Can I do this without an address? If not, how might I find one?
- Any other suggestions for recourse or next steps?
Thank you immensely.



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