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Fathers live in "girlfriend" eyeing up inheritance
My father has been seeing his girlfriend for many years. And she has lived with him for most of that time, although she owns property abroad and until recently, locally too (recently sold).She works, and owns a car which she looks after herself.
She claims she is always broke and forces him to pay for almost everything. They hate each other and in reality have only been roomates for the last few years. I often expect things to turn violent when the subject of her leaving is brought up.
He is too weak to kick her out.
Recently she made a comment to me about wanting 25 percent of the estate upon my fathers death, which I questioned as she's had money from an ex marriage, and from her deceased parents. And I was insulted when she said she would take me to court over the matter. As i am 60k in debt with no assets.
She has friends who pray on men like this, one who has 3 dead ex parterns, she will know exactly what to say in court and often helps people with divirces, I am worried.
How can I advise him to protect my inheritance if he is not man enough to kick her out, when he tries ahe says I will think about it (she can afford to leave but refuses to spend a penny) I am sure its all calculated.
My father thinks that because she gets nothing so isnt too concerned. Apart from her locking me out and stealing his loose assets I think she has been collecting evidence to make my life difficult when arguing this case. Most of her assets are probably hidden abroad as she is was not born in the uk.
In this case. What wpuld she be entitled to and what would a court case cost me if it came to that.
She claims she is always broke and forces him to pay for almost everything. They hate each other and in reality have only been roomates for the last few years. I often expect things to turn violent when the subject of her leaving is brought up.
He is too weak to kick her out.
Recently she made a comment to me about wanting 25 percent of the estate upon my fathers death, which I questioned as she's had money from an ex marriage, and from her deceased parents. And I was insulted when she said she would take me to court over the matter. As i am 60k in debt with no assets.
She has friends who pray on men like this, one who has 3 dead ex parterns, she will know exactly what to say in court and often helps people with divirces, I am worried.
How can I advise him to protect my inheritance if he is not man enough to kick her out, when he tries ahe says I will think about it (she can afford to leave but refuses to spend a penny) I am sure its all calculated.
My father thinks that because she gets nothing so isnt too concerned. Apart from her locking me out and stealing his loose assets I think she has been collecting evidence to make my life difficult when arguing this case. Most of her assets are probably hidden abroad as she is was not born in the uk.
In this case. What wpuld she be entitled to and what would a court case cost me if it came to that.
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