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    Hi There,

    Where do I start! Well my son had a relationship and has had 2 children by her and they have since they have split up. The first child he is not on the Birth Certificate, but the 2nd child he is named as the father which is good. the family he had been associated with was not the best in the world and has Social services and Family involvement team involved at many times before the children were born and also after.

    The Girl is now refusing to let me, my wife and my son see the children at all and she says that we cannot be trusted with them, despite everything being ok before they fell out and we might also add that we have never had social services at our door ever. She is saying that she has been told that if we ever see the youngest child that she has been told that we will not bring him back and for that reason she has taken advice and they have said (whoever they are ?) that we are not allowed to see them or him without her being present. I am sorry but I don't wish her to even come near our house after what she has done and said about our family.

    She has over the past 4 years we have know her never told told the truth in anything she has said and always twists the truth for her own benefit. She is also suffering from metal health issues, but refusing to get help or take any medication for her condition and now her mother has taken charge of the children. You might that's good but her mother has also issues and she controls the children like her own and has a turbulent background to say the least. She is named on the social services report because of her involvement with a man who is a risk to children.

    She has also told my son that her mother is going for a residency order and no one has contacted him about this. The Family involvement team are once again involved but not social services, I have called the member of staff who is the case worker and she can't tell me anything about the case, of which I know because of the legal and confidential issues surrounding the family, but she is going to drop into the conversation next time about what contact we are having if any and gauge their response. We have spoken to social services and they have said the last know case file was closed and they know nothing about the residency order.

    I might also add the my sons EX is drinking heavy and involved with drugs and can get very violent at times and do things to other people and their property thinking she is above the law and has been arrested 3 times since they have split up. Also her mother smokes some type of drug, of which I don't know, but be-leave it to be cannabis and because we have never used any drugs and not do we wish to we can not be certain of the type.

    I could go and on and on with a list to right a book, but I will not.

    We are wanting to know what if there is anything we can do to see our grandchildren. We miss the children and only wish to spend good quality time with our grandchildren.

    Please help with any advice of what we should do in order to try and sort things, we have have sent her messages time and again all in a nice tone asking to see them and we get ignored and we have kept all messages as proof that we are at least trying to see the children.
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    Re: Grandchildren

    Can your son apply for parental responsibility (through the courts)? - https://www.gov.uk/parental-rights-r...responsibility
    This might be useful too - http://www.gingerbread.org.uk/factsh...esponsibility-
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      Re: Grandchildren

      Originally posted by Kati View Post
      Can your son apply for parental responsibility (through the courts)? - https://www.gov.uk/parental-rights-r...responsibility
      This might be useful too - http://www.gingerbread.org.uk/factsh...esponsibility-
      He is in the Army now and trying to build a secure future for his Children and himself. So I guess the Answer might be no for now.

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