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  • White Flag

    So I am officially waving the white flag. I surrender!

    They've won.

    I called in today to say I won't be in due to severe pain still and was told "well that will block the transfer to another unit."

    What's the point of me fighting anymore, all I am getting is stumbling blocks and grief. I hate being there and they are doing their best to get rid of me, and the worst part is I cannot afford to take this further. All I have done today is cry and apply for new jobs, God willing someone will take me on!!

    If anyone wins millions on the lottery, the Send Callie to Cork fund is up and running (im JOKING btw!!!)

    I don't normally give up without a fight but the pain is horrific and my mental state is deteriorating so it's time to bow out and say you know what.. you win! You got me.

    I since complaining about the transfer I have had an unnessacary OH visit, a pending disciplinary for failing DPA (2 days after the internal union came in!) no update on the meeting about my sick leave (how can Hypermobility cause a chest infection?!?!) and you know what..;. it's not worth the agro!

    Will update you if anything comes along, unless one of you wants to give me any other ways I can get off this unit?!?!
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    "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)
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    Re: White Flag

    ((HUGS)) xx
    Debt is like any other trap, easy enough to get into, but hard enough to get out of.

    It doesn't matter where your journey begins, so long as you begin it...

    recte agens confido

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    • #3
      Re: White Flag

      If OH don't know about EDS what are they doing in that job?
      I have a daughter and grand daughter with the syndrome, fortunately only mild, but I can appreciate a little of your problems.

      Back to Cork and easily accessible Paddy, no?

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      • #4
        Re: White Flag

        Originally posted by des8 View Post
        If OH don't know about EDS what are they doing in that job?
        I have a daughter and grand daughter with the syndrome, fortunately only mild, but I can appreciate a little of your problems.

        Back to Cork and easily accessible Paddy, no?
        The only issue with me going to Cork is understanding them lmao!! My late fiance Aiden was from Cork, and it's a beautiful town! Dad was a Sligoman and Granddaddy was from Rosscommon!

        The scary thing is.. I have a Paddy in Cork but he will kill me if he hears me calling him it! (Padraig "It's NOT paddy!!)

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        Originally posted by Kati View Post
        ((HUGS)) xx
        thanks much needed and appreciated <3
        PLEASE NOTE: I work irregular hours including nights and sleep in shifts. If I have not responded in 48 hours, please ask an admin to Messenger me!

        "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)

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        • #5
          Re: White Flag

          Originally posted by slainte caragh View Post
          The only issue with me going to Cork is understanding them lmao!! My late fiance Aiden was from Cork, and it's a beautiful town! Dad was a Sligoman and Granddaddy was from Rosscommon!

          The scary thing is.. I have a Paddy in Cork but he will kill me if he hears me calling him it! (Padraig "It's NOT paddy!!
          For the removal of all doubt I was referring to Paddy which comes in a bottle from the Cork Distillery!

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          • #6
            Re: White Flag

            Originally posted by des8 View Post
            For the removal of all doubt I was referring to Paddy which comes in a bottle from the Cork Distillery!
            See I prefer baileys, which is also has a brewery in Waterford (just think, crystal glasses to drink it out of )

            And if you are in to the auld Irish water of life, may I reccomend the Connemara whiskies.. you won't regret it!

            Callie <3
            PLEASE NOTE: I work irregular hours including nights and sleep in shifts. If I have not responded in 48 hours, please ask an admin to Messenger me!

            "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)

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            • #7
              Re: White Flag

              Originally posted by slainte caragh View Post
              My late fiance Aiden was from Cork, and it's a beautiful town! Dad was a Sligoman and Granddaddy was from Rosscommon!
              we're all Limerick/Clare born (or there abouts) if you go back far enough ... we've still got 2/3rds of the family over there!
              Debt is like any other trap, easy enough to get into, but hard enough to get out of.

              It doesn't matter where your journey begins, so long as you begin it...

              recte agens confido

              ~~~~~

              Any advice I provide is given without liability, if you are unsure please seek professional legal guidance.

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              • #8
                Re: White Flag

                Originally posted by slainte caragh View Post
                See I prefer baileys, which is also has a brewery in Waterford (just think, crystal glasses to drink it out of )

                And if you are in to the auld Irish water of life, may I reccomend the Connemara whiskies.. you won't regret it!

                Callie <3
                Beautifully peaty and smooth, I remember.
                Must drop some hints around Christmas time!!

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                • #9
                  Re: White Flag

                  Originally posted by Kati View Post
                  we're all Limerick/Clare born (or there abouts) if you go back far enough ... we've still got 2/3rds of the family over there!
                  We went to Cork 3 years ago and got as far as Limerick and the heavens opened. A lad got on, shook the water from his hair, nodded at me and went Tis wet!!

                  Funniest thing over!!

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                  Originally posted by des8 View Post
                  Beautifully peaty and smooth, I remember.
                  Must drop some hints around Christmas time!!
                  Consider it done!
                  PLEASE NOTE: I work irregular hours including nights and sleep in shifts. If I have not responded in 48 hours, please ask an admin to Messenger me!

                  "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)

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                  • #10
                    Re: White Flag

                    Originally posted by slainte caragh View Post
                    We went to Cork 3 years ago and got as far as Limerick and the heavens opened. A lad got on, shook the water from his hair, nodded at me and went Tis wet!!
                    sounds about right ... us (born and bred) Yorkshire folk do the same thing xx
                    Debt is like any other trap, easy enough to get into, but hard enough to get out of.

                    It doesn't matter where your journey begins, so long as you begin it...

                    recte agens confido

                    ~~~~~

                    Any advice I provide is given without liability, if you are unsure please seek professional legal guidance.

                    I can be emailed if you need my help loading pictures/documents to your thread. My email address is Kati@legalbeagles.info
                    But please include a link to your thread so I know who you are.

                    Specialist advice can be sought via our sister site JustBeagle

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                    • #11
                      Re: White Flag

                      I just thought.. I'm really cheap to buy for!!

                      I should have said the send Kati and Callie to the Bahamas fund!!!!!
                      PLEASE NOTE: I work irregular hours including nights and sleep in shifts. If I have not responded in 48 hours, please ask an admin to Messenger me!

                      "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)

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                      • #12
                        Re: White Flag

                        Originally posted by slainte caragh View Post
                        I should have said the send Kati and Callie to the Bahamas fund!!!!!
                        I'd prefer the equivalent £££s worth of whiskey (and a log cabin somewhere) xx
                        Debt is like any other trap, easy enough to get into, but hard enough to get out of.

                        It doesn't matter where your journey begins, so long as you begin it...

                        recte agens confido

                        ~~~~~

                        Any advice I provide is given without liability, if you are unsure please seek professional legal guidance.

                        I can be emailed if you need my help loading pictures/documents to your thread. My email address is Kati@legalbeagles.info
                        But please include a link to your thread so I know who you are.

                        Specialist advice can be sought via our sister site JustBeagle

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                        • #13
                          Re: White Flag

                          I'd settle for a rub down with either Keith Scott, Jamie Lawson or Gale Harold, a year off to find a job I enjoy and disarano and lemonade!
                          PLEASE NOTE: I work irregular hours including nights and sleep in shifts. If I have not responded in 48 hours, please ask an admin to Messenger me!

                          "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)

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                          • #14
                            Re: White Flag

                            ***UPDATE***

                            Applied directly with Recruitment for a job in another department. Put on the application I AM EXISTING STAFF.
                            They rang me. I reminded them I am staff, I am applying cos I am desperate for a transfer and being ignored PLEASE give me this job to be told to apply for a transfer and wait.

                            i said I have been waiting a year and being ignored, "nothing I can do to help. just apply for a transfer, but you're perfect for the job!"

                            THEN GIVE ME THE POXY THING!!!!!!

                            I'm already there, I don't even need the interview!!!!! It even says on the CV I submitted that I work there and you called me!!!!

                            I give up. I have literally done EVERYTHING i can to move departments and they just don't care!!!
                            PLEASE NOTE: I work irregular hours including nights and sleep in shifts. If I have not responded in 48 hours, please ask an admin to Messenger me!

                            "If you ever feel alone, remember, I am just the other side of the rainbow, or just south of the North Star. Whichever is closer." - A.J Murphy. 17/3/1974 - 16/03/1997 (RIP babe <3)

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